23F boyfriend’s best friend and mine tried to make a move on me
known this guy for a year now, he’s been wonderful, someone i look up to, we are really good friends, very principled and sincere except just always in some kind of romantic trouble. boyfriend and i are completing a year in a few days and it’s been the sweetest relationship, we are moving in together soon, can’t wait! we are kind of the stable monogamous couple in the friend group, everyone around us is in some kind of odd situation or busy kissing their friends, i don’t judge but thats not me and my boyfriend, we love each other and it’s old school as we like it. anyway, went to the club, best friend tagged along and was incredibly inebriated, he kind of always is, it’s a drinking problem and we have tried to tell him about it but to no avail. tried to make sure we didn’t make him feel like a third wheel all night except when my boyfriend left to get us a drink, he put his hand on my waist and tried to dance really close to me. i immediately felt odd and left to the bathroom. when my boyfriend came back, nothing of that sort transpired. he stayed over at ours and didn’t seem to remember anything in the morning. it was too brief to recollect and I had spent all night feeling quite upset about it, questioning myself, if i had done anything etc. told him, he said he fucked up and doesn’t remember, boyfriend is upset reasonably so, he has been very comforting but the knot in my stomach won’t go away. whats in the cards for this whole situation am i having an appropriate reaction to this
Edit- context that i havent admitted to anyone else yet because i am having trouble processing it, i sensed that he was trying to grind on me, i dont know if that constitutes harm, i have spent a lot of time wondering if I am reading it wrong and he meant nothing by it but i can’t shake off the feeling that i picked up on it and immediately withdrew from the situation because i was extremely uncomfortable. i am so terribly unnerved by it and honestly i did not expect it from someone i considered a dear friend and a brother