u/filfthy_dogs

Like I understand we live in a matrichical society where women are seen as these precious benevolent beings that can never do anything wrong and are always in the right no matter what and this is just goofy as fuck, they just have to be shielded from accountability at all costs. like I've noticed especially online when it comes to the dating game women can say as much negative shit about men as they want even if what they're saying is bullshit and nobody will bat an eye, shit they might even get praised for it, but the second a man criticizes women and calls them out on their bullshit you're gonna get attacked by everybody. I remember this one dude on tiktok who was calling out women for selecting shitty abusive men that they knew were no good to begin with but still got with them anyway simply because their face was attractive, he was saying that they view good hearted men as boring and weak and this is literally true I've seen it happen so many times in my personal life, but yet the comment section was filled with people attacking this dude calling him an incel, entitled, you know their favorite little words. and this just pisses me off because it's like women can talk shit about us but when we do it back we're treated as monstrous villains even if what we're saying is the truth? like nah fuck that shit. women need to face accountability once in their life, they need to stop having unrealistic ass standards, they need to stop choosing the worse type of men to date simply because of how they look, like you'd think this would be common sense but that's obviously lacking in this society.

I'm 19, I'm below average looking, I have a few mental disabilities (Autism, intellectual disorder, and speech deficits) not to mention I'm 5'6 so yeah I'm pretty much fucked, throughout my whole life starting from middle school I've been rejected, excluded by girls, even trying to make friends with girls in high school was very difficult because I was viewed as weird. I was never really bullied in school I was either just excluded, ignored or rejected. I've only had 1 relationship when I was 16 with this one girl in my special ed class and that was mainly because my friend had to convince her to date me, plus when we was together she would always keep me private since she was embarrassed to show me off, and mind you this wasn't a girl that I pulled on my own I've never been successful with pulling girls because I'm just undesirable. nobody wants to be with an autistic dude that's slow and struggles to get his words out, girls in this society unfortunately only want dudes who have looks, money, status and I don't have none of that. and one thing that really makes me sad is thinking about the fact that I'm gonna be alone for the rest of my life, I will never know what it's like to have a wife and kids, I will never know what it's like to cuddle with a girl, I will never get to experience what it's like having a girl that actually loves you for you, like all the good things that comes with having a female companion is just out of reach for me my whole life and there's nothing I can do about it, I can't cure my autism or change my face, not to mention since I'm no longer in a structured setting with a bunch of people around my age that lowers the odds even further. I go to work and come home and get on my game. and my female coworkers that are my age at my job either think I'm weird or they already got boyfriends. and it's like I genuinely don't see how people adapt to living a life like this, it's hard for me to even picture living a life where you have to see everyone else with a girlfriend/wife getting all the affection and love while you're just sitting back deprived of that. and what I always hear is "just spend time with other dudes bro" and it's like no bruh I need a girl in my life. like men need women just as much as they need us, humans are interdependent beings we rely on each other to keep our sanity intact. and I just don't know how I can live my whole life without any sort of companionship and affection. It's something I wouldn't wish on my worse enemy, to the older people who are in this position, how do you cope?

Edit: I should of said this, for anyone outside the sub who sees this post please don't give me any bullshit about "self improvement" "confidence" and "gym" I don't wanna hear it bro I really don't. I only want to hear from other people who are in my same position.