▲ 9 r/ChildPsychology+1 crossposts

Need advice: My brother has been facing severe bullying/abuse at school for years, and the school isn’t taking action

I’m posting this because my family genuinely doesn’t know what to do anymore.

My younger brother has been subjected to extremely abusive and vulgar behaviour by some of his classmates for years. It has gone far beyond normal teasing or school arguments.

The language and behaviour directed toward him have been deeply inappropriate and hurtful, and it has also involved extremely disrespectful comments about my parents and family.

What makes this worse is that the teachers have already been told about it multiple times. Despite this, nothing meaningful seems to have been done, and the behaviour continues.

My brother has always struggled academically and is not a particularly confident student, which unfortunately seems to have made him an easier target. However, his academic performance should never be used to justify the kind of abusive and vulgar behaviour he has been subjected to

My brother has had to deal with this for years, and as his family, it is incredibly frustrating and upsetting to watch him go through this while the people responsible continue without consequences.

We are considering escalating the matter to the school administration/management and, if necessary, seeking help outside the school. Before we take that step, I wanted to ask;

What would be the best way to formally handle a situation like this when teachers have already been informed but haven’t taken effective action?

Should we submit a written complaint to the principal/management?(not effective though) Should we document every incident and communication? Has anyone dealt with a similar situation where the school failed to act?

I’d really appreciate advice from parents, students, teachers, or anyone who has dealt with serious bullying in school.

Please keep the comments respectful. This is a genuine situation and we are trying to figure out the safest and most effective way forward.

Edit: I also have screenshots of chats of him getting bullied during online class!

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u/finalriddance — 14 hours ago

Current Situation?(after rain)

So, I want to go to Ghumar Mandi from Chandigarh Road. It’s unavoidable, but I’m concerned about waterlogging. Can you confirm if it’s safe to go, or will I get stuck? I’m going by Activa

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u/finalriddance — 23 days ago

Need help spending ₹15–17k Amazon Gift Card balance wisely! Best value deals?

Hellooo everyyyoneeee

I have around ₹15–17k in Amazon gift card balance, so I can only spend it on Amazon. I don’t want to waste it on random purchases—I want to maximize the value and get products that are genuinely worth buying, especially if they’re available at great discounts.

I’m mainly interested in:

Body washes & shower gels (love luxurious scents)
Fragrances (especially if there are hidden gems or great deals)

Body lotions & moisturizers (Bath & Body Works, Dove, Vaseline, etc.)

Lip oils, lip glosses, lip balms, lip sticks

Hair care (masks, serums, shampoos, styling products)

Handbags or accessories

Luxury beauty products that become a steal during sales
Any high-value products that are almost always worth buying when discounted.

Also, Also, Respectfully

If you have any random products you think I must have except these basically— please don’t gate keep!

I’m also open to categories I’m overlooking. Maybe there are products that have excellent resale value, are usually expensive outside Amazon, or are simply amazing purchases for someone who enjoys beauty and self-care.
For reference, I already enjoy brands like Bath & Body Works, but I’m happy to explore anything that’s genuinely worth the money.
What would you buy if you had ₹15–17k in Amazon gift card balance and wanted to get the maximum value out of it?

Looking for recommendations, hidden gems, and the best deals you’ve personally found.

Thank you in Advance.

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u/finalriddance — 1 month ago

Need help spending ₹15–17k Amazon Gift Card balance wisely! Best value deals?

Hellooo everyyyoneeee

I have around ₹15–17k in Amazon gift card balance, so I can only spend it on Amazon. I don’t want to waste it on random purchases—I want to maximize the value and get products that are genuinely worth buying, especially if they’re available at great discounts.

I’m mainly interested in:

Body washes & shower gels (love luxurious scents)
Fragrances (especially if there are hidden gems or great deals)

Body lotions & moisturizers (Bath & Body Works, Dove, Vaseline, etc.)

Lip oils, lip glosses, lip balms, lip sticks

Hair care (masks, serums, shampoos, styling products)

Handbags or accessories

Luxury beauty products that become a steal during sales
Any high-value products that are almost always worth buying when discounted.

Also, Also, Respectfully

If you have any random products you think I must have except these basically— please don’t gate keep!

I’m also open to categories I’m overlooking. Maybe there are products that have excellent resale value, are usually expensive outside Amazon, or are simply amazing purchases for someone who enjoys beauty and self-care.
For reference, I already enjoy brands like Bath & Body Works, but I’m happy to explore anything that’s genuinely worth the money.
What would you buy if you had ₹15–17k in Amazon gift card balance and wanted to get the maximum value out of it?

Looking for recommendations, hidden gems, and the best deals you’ve personally found.

Thank you in Advance.

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u/finalriddance — 1 month ago

Need help spending ₹15–17k Amazon Gift Card balance wisely! Best value deals?

Hellooo everyyyoneeee

I have around ₹15–17k in Amazon gift card balance, so I can only spend it on Amazon. I don’t want to waste it on random purchases—I want to maximize the value and get products that are genuinely worth buying, especially if they’re available at great discounts.

I’m mainly interested in:

Body washes & shower gels (love luxurious scents)
Fragrances (especially if there are hidden gems or great deals)

Body lotions & moisturizers (Bath & Body Works, Dove, Vaseline, etc.)

Lip oils, lip glosses, lip balms, lip sticks

Hair care (masks, serums, shampoos, styling products)

Handbags or accessories

Luxury beauty products that become a steal during sales
Any high-value products that are almost always worth buying when discounted.

Also, Also, Respectfully

If you have any random products you think I must have except these basically— please don’t gate keep!

I’m also open to categories I’m overlooking. Maybe there are products that have excellent resale value, are usually expensive outside Amazon, or are simply amazing purchases for someone who enjoys beauty and self-care.
For reference, I already enjoy brands like Bath & Body Works, but I’m happy to explore anything that’s genuinely worth the money.
What would you buy if you had ₹15–17k in Amazon gift card balance and wanted to get the maximum value out of it?

Looking for recommendations, hidden gems, and the best deals you’ve personally found.

Thank you in Advance.

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u/finalriddance — 1 month ago
▲ 13 r/PanjabUniversity+1 crossposts

Exams Postponed

Postponing exams from 26 & 28 May to 4 & 5 June at the last moment is nothing but poor management and a casual attitude towards students.
People had already booked flights, trains, hotels and travel plans, many of them non-refundable. Some students have competitive exams, interviews, appointments, internships and serious commitments planned according to the original dates.

The most frustrating part is how casually these decisions are taken, as if students’ time, money, stress and planning hold no value. Not everyone can afford sudden cancellations and re-bookings.

If changes were unavoidable, why announce them so late after everything was already scheduled? Students are always expected to “adjust,” while the inconvenience and financial loss fall entirely on us.

This isn’t just postponement anymore, it’s clear mismanagement!
Poor Management!

I even mailed the Controller of Examinations regarding this issue, but there is no response at all, I feel shame saying this, after all this is Indian Education System, what else can we expect?

(Please keep a calendar next time along with you while making datesheets, honourable Controller of Examination!)

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u/finalriddance — 3 months ago