40M | 5'11" | Fit, good-looking, financially stable, emotionally stable... basically a rare government-approved green flag, applying for an arranged love-marriage 😎
Before you ask:
Yes, all my health parameters are really good (knock on wood!)
Yes, I exercise regularly.
Yes, I can hold a conversation beyond “wyd”.
And no, I don’t smoke, drink, disappear emotionally, trade crypto at 3 AM, or punch walls after IPL losses.
I’m a Engineering Program Manager working with one of the world’s biggest banks and earning over 60+ Lakhs. Professionally sorted, financially disciplined, no loans, no liabilities, and thankfully no “situationship trauma” either.
Physically very active and health-conscious...the kind of person who’ll convince you to go for a morning walk and then reward you with good food afterward. I believe fitness is cheaper than hospital bills.
About me:
- just turned 40 ( i look much younger than my age...thanks to intentional dietary choices and a healthy lifestyle)
- 5’11”
- Telugu mother tongue
- Fluent in Hindi & English
- Clean habits
- Family-oriented
- Calm, dependable, and emotionally mature
- Equal parts disciplined and goofy
Life dealt me a tough hand early on since I lost my parents, but I have older siblings, who are happily married and settled.
Now addressing the elephant in the room:
Yes, I’m older than the typical Reddit demographic here. But physically and emotionally, I’m doing better than many half my age.
I genuinely believe compatibility is more important than matching birth years like software versions.
What I’m looking for:
A kind-hearted, emotionally intelligent woman who values peace, loyalty, health, laughter, and mutual respect. Someone who still believes marriage is a partnership and not a courtroom negotiation. Vegetarian/eggetarian preferably. Childfree by choice? You're probably wonderful, but we may not be aligned long-term.
Bonus points if:
- you can tolerate terrible dad jokes
- you like long drives, meaningful conversations, or random late-night chai
- you think kindness is attractive
- you’re capable of sending more than “hmm”
If this somehow sounds interesting instead of terrifying, feel free to say hi and a good intro.
Worst case: you gain a good conversation
Best case: we both can put an end to our search for a good partner.