u/flowingghost

Bhai story batata hun, abhi bhi vibe kar raha hun 😭🔥

Mom ke saath store gaya tha, mom andar shopping kar rahi thi aur mai bahar phone chala raha tha. Achanak ek ladki se eye contact hua 👀

Kuch der baad wo khud aake bolti hai — "tum (naam) ho na?"

Mai: "haan, kya hua?" 😐

Wo: "tum (gym ka naam) gym jaate ho na, maine tumhe wahi dekha tha"

Mai (mann mein): bhai maine toh sirf 1 month gym kiya tha

Mai: Achaa

Fir thoda awkward silence... 😶

Fir achanak: "tum insta pe ho?"

Mai: "haan"

Phone deti hai apna insta khola hua, mai search karke apna id de deta hun 🙈

Thodi aur baatein hui fir wo chali gayi

(Usme maine usse bta diya thaa mai sirf 1 month hi gya thaa)

Bhai ab tak samajh nahi aa raha kya hua abhi 😭 ek mahine ka gym membership aur wahi mujhe "gym jaane wala banda" bana diya, insta bhi mil gayi

Idk agar aap logo ko relate hoga ya nahi but for me ye ek achievement unlock jaisa feel ho raha hai fr fr

I 20M Met a girl 19F on a chitchat web, we clicked instantly — talked 1.5 hours there, then moved to Insta and talked another 3 hours straight. Zero red flags, genuinely felt like a good connection.

Next day, convo's still going fine... then randomly, blocked. No fight, no warning.

I thought it might be my fault too — I went back on the chitchat web in the middle of our conversation because she was giving really late replies without saying anything, so I figured that's what triggered it.

A day later she unblocks me. My first thought was that it's probably something I did, but I still wanted to know the real reason, so I texted her. Her answer: she said she gets "ick" easily, has been distancing herself from everyone lately — even her own old friends — and thinks it's some kind of "avoidant issues." But when I asked her to explain properly, she couldn't even put it into a full sentence.

I told her it's fine if she didn't want to talk, no hard feelings. She just said "nvm."

So that's it. Great vibe, hours of talking, blocked over something she can't even explain herself. New-age ghosting, I guess.

Anyone else dealt with this kind of "ick + avoidant" excuse before? Feels like a new trend tbh 😭

\*(First time posting that's why I used claude to helpwrite this post)\*

First time in 20 years a girl approached ME for insta 😭🔥

She blocked me after hours of great conversation, then gave the most confusing "reason" ever