u/flying-weenus

I see this coming up a lot here, acting like Kimmy was abused by the Tanner elders.

All I ever saw it as was banter between an eccentric neighbor and the family next door. They shot jabs back at her but most often she made the first jab at them, and I never saw either side as malicious but more banter on the playful side.

Am I missing something? What exactly was so cruel in the way they interacted with her?