“I refer to everyone by ‘they/them’ pronouns” is not allyship!
I work in an agency with some other therapists and we get a fair amount of trans/nonbinary clients. I’ve noticed a trend where some therapists will refer to all trans clients with they/them pronouns. I’ve brought it up before and they say they use they/them just to “be inclusive”. It drives me crazy!
These people are telling us their pronouns! If someone AFAB came in with no trans identity, you wouldn’t refer to her as “they/them” to her face. Same should go for someone AMAB with she/her pronouns. It’s still misgendering someone, just not with their gender assigned at birth. Am I nuts?