u/frostyflamelily

I said what I said. What do you mean that she baby trapped you and you are not a part of that child's life means that you are child free?

What the f*ck do you mean you do not know the cost of your kids weekly needs or the name of their freaking teacher??

Am I supposed to be impressed? If you can't care for your own BLOOD ko ini susan???

Being childfree doesn't mean I'll sit down and applaud for a man who takes no responsibility for his actions. Hanzi she trapped me. Well why are you shagging with or without precautions hoe a$$ dude??? Having sex with anyone means that you are prepared for the potential consequences of your actions.

But y'all don't think that far do you? You just like that ice age squirrel chasing a nut f****ck everything and everyone but that nut. The little head running the show.

The bar is in the 9th circle of hell and some Zimbabwean men are tripping on that MF.

Anyway I hope I make money this week like how some of y'all make your kids. Quick and unplanned.

Reading the comments, observing the gender wars.

I've realised that the majority of the men on this sub for single folks consume red pill content or at least agree with some parts of it.

This sub always has posts about virginity, how women are gold diggers, don't take accountability of anything, have male best friends, treat "nice guys" badly.

It's always what is wrong with women today, and how can I contribute by saying the truth about the evil women.

I've never actually seen a post where women are spoken about positively unless she is the traditional woman who helps the man pay the bills. Men It's okay to say that you need your women to help you out financially. But you don't need to be rude about it. We get it. Life is hard.

But have you all considered that the reason why y'all are single and complaining daily is because your potential partners read the vile comments and posts and shy away? Why would she respond positively to your DMs when you constantly talk about how horrible women are?

Men, what's up? Do you even like women?

So I there has been a game that I've been playing for months, got off the high seas arrrgh!! Certain features that I wanted demanded that I have a legit copy. So I stopped eating magunanzi for a couple of days and raised the $24 plus the crazy zim Mastercard taxes. That would have been about $31 or $32 depending on how mtuli is feeling. I paid for the game. And econetsa took only $26.

I sat there confused for a good 10 min. I checked with my email and I had my game key. So obviously it had been paid for. And I was asking myself why didn't they take their pound of flesh?The torture of trying to figure of if they'd deduct the fees at a future date put me off the game that I couldn't even play it.

I then realised that I'm in an abusive r-word (your mods won't let me say the whole thing.) with the policies in my home country, I'm always fully expecting to be overcharged, given shit service or exploited in some way that it is difficult to accept when they are lenient.

A few weeks back I wanted to get a new passport. I took 3 days PTO because you know government processes. I got there at 1pm because I got distracted at home and was late. By 3pm I was out all processes done. I sat outside the passport office again for a few minutes because my brain couldn't process it. This is not the Zimbabwe I know. Why am I not suffering? Anyway I had 2 extra days to stay home doing fokoli.

Its like when an abuser changes their personality overnight. You are waiting for the other shoe to drop??? That's me pure confusion. Why is Zim being nice to me? What does it want? What will I have to do? How long will it last?

I don't like it. But I guess when it comes to the passport office thats a good thing.

Hi all.

I'm looking for a graphic designer to assist me with making wall art for my home. Mostly my favourite anime characters in one image to be printed on a A0 canvas.

No AI slop please. TIA

Has anyone bought their same day delivery TVs, or am I better off taking my money elsewhere? I can't find any reviews online and was hoping y'all would point me in the right direction.

TIA

Has anyone bought the vehicles from the Zimra auctions?

What charges are you expected to pay? Outside of the bidding price, VAT and levy for the auction house?

I don't want to be hit by mystery customs duty and other fees...

Is anyone else struggling with shop rentals in Harare? I had opened a small spot in the CBD and was running it well for a couple of years. And decided to expand and open another branch in Belgravia and shit hit the proverbial fan.

My landlord in town? Was a middleman. I was paying the lady full rent, and she'd pay the actual landlord bits and pieces until he got fed up and came through with an eviction notice.

Okay, so I could fall back on the Belgravia branch, right?? Wrong, the rentals got increased because of "improvements" they'd done to the mall. I found myself giving notice and took all my shit home. No way I could afford the rentals, my stock alone wasn't even worth half the new rentals.

So, I go from having 2 shops, a great thing going to zero and scratching my head, my employee is back to being unemployed.

Now, I'm looking for a new spot, but yoh! Rentals are brutal. Back to online selling.

That's Zim for you.

I know it's one of you braniacs....

Thank you. The meme harvest is glorious.

Why do y'all see red flags and still jump into the relationship?? I don't get it?

I'm a horribleish human. I'm a walking red flag, 36F diagnosed with AuDHD. Single, no kids, middle income.

So my red flag. I just leave... Leave relationships, situations, and anything that needs me to commit emotions, time, and money.

My pattern is like this, I'm star-struck the first 2 weeks, I respond well, don't mind phone calls or outings.

3rd week responding to texts becomes a chore, having to think of witty responses to keep the other party interested is no longer fun, shiny or new it's predictable and now I know too much about them. The family, the friends.... And if this continues, not only do I have to perform for him. I'll have to pretend to be human for them, too? No.

Week 4 I'm bored out of my mind and now staying in the situation out of pure guilt. I convince myself that maybe if I stay longer, the spark might come back, and I can be happy with this human.

2 or 3 months down the line. I'm overstimulated, overwhelmed, and angry. I find ways to avoid communication. I switch off my phone, burrow in bed, binge watch series, the times I'm supposed to be spending time with "him." Zesa is always to blame for these bed rot sessions, never mind that all my devices are fully charged, and I have power 24/7.

Sometimes, the cheating accusations come. I can barely tolerate him, why the fuck would I put myself in the exact same spot with another dude??? But I can't say that! So I get annoyed and angry as the days pass.

So in the end. I do what I do best. Ghost. No explanations, no conflict, no drama, at least on my end. I just wake up on day, block them on everything and carry on like it never happened.

I told the men I've attempted to date that this is my MO. They hear this. And are surprised when I eventually disappear??

I guess they thought they could change me. Or that they were different.

Why am I sharing this? Another one bit the dust. There is a man out there right now, wondering why I ghosted him after I told him I'd ghost him in the first 20 min of our "talking stage."

Could I change? Maybe? Do I want to change? No, not really? Being the way I am has saved me from situations my girls tell me about men.

Anyway, sometimes red flags are vocal about being red flags.

Hi, y'all. I'm disposing of my old gaming laptop.

here are the specs

Lenovo Legion R9000P 2021 (RTX 3060 Edition)

Core Performance

• Processor (CPU): AMD Ryzen 7 5800H (8 Cores / 16 Threads, 3.2GHz Base, up to 4.4GHz Boost)

• Graphics (GPU): NVIDIA GeForce RTX 3060 Laptop GPU

• VRAM: 6GB GDDR6

• Max TGP: 130W (Full Power Release)

• Features: Ray Tracing, DLSS, Dynamic Boost 2.0

• Memory (RAM): 32GB DDR4-3200MHz (Dual-channel)

• Storage (SSD): 512GB PCIe 3.0 x4 NVMe (Dual M.2 2280 slots; one occupied, one free for expansion)

Display & Visuals

• Size: 16-inch IPS

• Resolution: 2.5K WQXGA (2560 x 1600)

• Refresh Rate: 165Hz

• Aspect Ratio: 16:10

• Brightness: 500 nits

• Colour Accuracy: 100% sRGB, X-Rite Pantone Factory Calibration

• Sync Tech: NVIDIA G-Sync & AMD FreeSync Premium

• HDR: VESA DisplayHDR 400, Dolby Vision support

I'm selling it for $590 negotiable. I'm also ordering some parts for a gaming PC I'm building from China ,so if you want me to point you in the right direction, DM me.

Edit I forgot to attach the pictures!! My bad!!!