u/fuckin-username99

I recently dated a man. We went on two dates he tried to take me home for the first time ever. I warned him that he was about to miss a turn and he said "I think i know how to get there", we got lost. On the way to MY house that I travel to everyday! That's why I ended things and he acted like I had just ripped his heart out. It felt like a conversation between a couple who has been dating for over a year! And we only went on two dates. I barely knew this guy!!

He complained, told me to give him a shot that I was overthinking. He then acted like I was going to steal his story idea. He gave me a card with my name on it which was sweet but then demanded I just throw it away. He blew my phone up for two whole days. He was very condescending always negated what I had to say. I was wrong all the time about a specific thing but then he'd say the same exact shit I did.

There's always a reason why the woman ghosted you and im going to prove my point by asking the woman of this sub to share their experiences and why they stopped dating someone. Take it away ladies!

I stated in a recent post that I have religious trauma and im working on that. I am dating this guy i find very very attractive and we've been on a few dates. Im still on the fence about him but if he plays his cards right I would want to have sex with him tonight after our date. Im just nervous because I anticipated something going down on our second date so I shaved and I felt like a porcupine almost immediately. I have the most thick and annoying hair and it didnt work out to shave. We didnt end up having sex anyways because he seemed pretty tired and It was late. So i figured we'd fool around on our third date. But my hair is now longer and it feels like a beard scratchy texture which sucks but shaving is off the table I can't do that again. Please help is this something I should avoid just because of the hair or will he be cool about it. Im not very experienced ive only had sex once before and this scares me i dont know what to expect because literally no one in my life would want to talk to me about this. I also feel really guilty when talking about it so this is my last option.