u/fuckingfat_

I saw someone doing it and why not I push myself out here for the very last time.

Orientation: Straight

Location: Selangor

Year of Birth: 2002

Religion / Race: Chinese (Conversational mandarin only LOL)

Occupation: Marketing Executive

Hobbies and interests: Solo drives, thrifting, hiking, gym

Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality):

- I am quite independent so you know how it goes

- I am super straightforward (98%)

- My words are mostly unfiltered

- I don’t drink, club nor smoke (Boring ahh lifestyle)

- I am either thrifty or spendthrift; no in between

- Shy at first but yaps a lot once comfortable

- I meal prep most of my days

Requirements / Preferences:

- Prefer humanns that speaks English at least 98% of their life

- Prefer ages between 24-28 years old

- EMOTIONALLY INTELLIGENT

- Is sarcastic and humorous

I think that’s about it! No idea what to say already LOL

For context, I am not looking for a relationship but rather friends to yap random things. I have given up on the dating scene.

is anyone in the same phase as me — yearning for someone but simultaneously afraid to be with someone because you are independent and know what you want. my one and only past relationship gave me so much mental trauma that i am actually so afraid to start dating. even if i wanted to, i just do not want to lose my spark.

my babygirls have treated me so well and set the standards so high that i really couldn’t find these in most of the males i’ve interacted so far. not saying they are bad, we are just not compatible. most of them want casual relationships and this honestly drains me as someone who really yearns for a healthy yet fun relationship.

okie that’s all for my ranting 🫪

as asked above, which one would be worth visiting? my friend and i are totally fine with either but i have seen reviews and also word of mouth about zoo negara not being well-maintained.

to those who went recently (last 6 months or lesser), please share your experience, thank you!

what the fuck do you mean men are still judging and guessing female’s boobs size?? don’t you all have better nicer topic to discuss than to guess what sizes her boobs are??? what so nice about boobs that you all had to discuss with your other male friends and make it like a very useful topic?? UTTERLY DISGUSTED.

since context is SO MUCH NEEDED, my female friend who was barely a month into her new job had her own boobs being discussed among her male colleagues around 28-35 years old single men. THEY WERE HAPPILY DISCUSSING WHAT CUP her boobs were.

Hihi I would appreciate if you can drop few dental clinic recommendations that provides good and affordable braces services. Thank you!

I am surveying for my 24th birthday and was thinking of celebrating myself in some fancy expensive places. Budget would be around RM300-400.

On top of that, those who couldn’t get to do fancy or expensive activities during their birthdays, what is that one thing you would do? Could be both indoor or outdoor, I am totally fine with any. Perhaps I might try them out as a self-reward for my birthday!

By the way, I am a female for easier activity context.

I really appreciate your recommendations 🫶🏼

Thank you!

Hihi any fellow Armys or BTS fans going for their concert this December? Just wanna see if there is a crowd here and those battling the tickets for themselves tomorrow, how you feeling 😩😩

Stumbled upon few posts about the difficulty finding their right one while being in their 20s.

To be fair, I share the same pain too. I am Chinese Msian (24F). I tried Bumble twice (once in March, another in May) yet the matches I had were all FWB (not my cup of tea) and super dry. I just cannot seem to go with the flow unless the guy is interested to carry the convo. Also, I did approach this cute guy in my previous office through IG but he legit showed no interest at all.

What I noticed personally is that most guys in their 20s these days wouldn’t start the conversation unless the girl starts it. Even if there is flow to the conversation, it ends super quickly and surface level.

At this point, I told myself I will just hit the gym daily while I wait for God to give me the right one at the right time.

hihi! i plan to do something for my 24th birthday and was thinking of doing solo photo shoots (cause why not hehe). i would appreciate if anyone can drop their best recommendations within pj area (preferably damansara or shah alam area)

also pls drop me ideas on what i should do for my 24th birthday alone 🤭

I am in need to visit a dental soon as my toothache has gotten real bad. Can you all please recommend me some affordable dental places within PJ area? Specifically, tooth removal or crowning.

Thank you so much!