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It’s funny because I’ve always put on muscle easily and never quite felt 100% right about my uterus and it turns out almost 30 years later I’m finding out I have PCOS. I feel like it explains a lot of my gender identity ironically enough! I just always had this feeling something was off and it’s weird, but affirming to have my body validate that. Idk I might be stretching here. I like to ability to express between masc, femme and androgynous, but it’s felt in accordance with my body and never as if this fluidity was opposed with my body (except sometimes I wish I could shrink my chest, but sometimes I like having it tis what it ‘tis ). Just curious if anyone else feels the same!

Hey Endo gang. I saw a new OBGYN to help with my PCOS stuff while I’m working on the endo with a pain specialist and surgeon (yes, I’m getting a laparoscopy soon). Basically he said that on top of the current pelvic floor therapy, I should look into vaginal dilators upon healing to help relax my muscles as insertion of basically anything really hurts. Has anyone tired them? How’d it go? I’m skeptical because it seems too easy but I’m open to trying them after my surgery healing period concludes. Also where did folks get theirs? (Points for discreet packaging lol).

I started on RHoNJ this past winter and binged the series. While the cast was messy and not everyone was always right I found it easy to rank my favs. Cue me starting RHoSLC and I’m two seasons in. I’m living for the chaos… but I don’t like any of the cast members. I can’t really choose a favorite because they say or do the wildest things an episode later.

Right now- Meredith is lost in the sauce. Whitney is constantly stirring shit with mean girl energy. Jennie was great… until she was fired for being racist. Mary is unintentionally hilarious and also totally evil and horribly racist. Heather is also lost in the sauce and Whitney lite. Lisa is really funny, but also really shady. Jen is so misguided, I genuinely feel bad for her despite her being criminally bad, I honestly think she’s just unwell and it’s hard to watch.

I don’t know if I like any of the cast in the way I do NJ. I like someone who owns up to their actions but I’m early on and want to favorite. Who are your favorites?