u/gahdamiluvrevenge

Are there any lawyers in Toledo that handle identity theft cases? The offense happened In Toledo in 2007. I did not discover the identity theft until just this month...

Toledo Bar was no help.

Called 4 different lawyers and they said they dont handle those types of cases.

A family member kept the student loan refunds during my time in college in Ohio back in 2007. I just discovered that and would now like to pursue legal action.

1 lawyer said i was sol pretty much since it occurred more than 6 years ago. When I fact-checked him online it said 6 years or from the date it was discovered. I'm not really one to to second-guess a lawyer, but I really don't want to be stuck with 60k, worth of debt if someone potentially misinformed me.

I'm a 35 yr old female with a ton of emotional trauma from childhood that spread into adulthood. Currently in therapy.

I have no relationship with my family because they took advantage of me every way possible...

I have a solid circle of chosen family through friends that i'm thankful for.

My issues is that I have so much emotional baggage That i feel like i'm damaged goods. Due to my family trauma I have a strong desire to get married. My current boyfriend of 4.5yrs is not ready for marriage and has changed his mind on the matter during the course of our relationship as is his right.

My bf is very supportive but i can tell that my emotional needs are starting to weigh on him. He also has mental health issues he is working on in therapy as well.

My questions are:

How did you move past a mountain of emotional baggage?

Did you "get over" your desire for marriage or just found someone else on the same page as you?

I feel a lot of guilt about wanting marriage so much. I just want someone to want me as a permanent fixture in thier life. It's a normal human desire. I know dating is hard especially these days. I love my bf to pieces but I know he is nowhere near ready to pop the question. Maybe even doesn't want to now...