Can I vent? :(
* Disclaimer: I am NOT seeking medical advice, or naming my artist. Just looking to vent. *
I’m a little bummed, to say the least. I traveled out of town and decided on a whim I wanted a tattoo. I have five already, and never have had a problem with any of them. I researched a few shops, found one that could take me last minute, and excitedly showed up for my tattoo. The shop was super clean and I had no concerns about cleanliness or hygiene whatsoever.
My artist was 45 minutes late, barely apologized, and didn’t have anything ready to go. I’m a very understanding person, and admittedly a huge people pleaser, so I decided to be nice about it and not make a big deal. We finally got started an hour after my scheduled appointment time, they overworked the shit out of my tattoo, wrapped it in plastic wrap instead of saniderm, and now its infected. My skin is literally split open and I did not once pick at the tattoo or scratch it to cause the splitting.
I’m really pissed, because I took great care to wash it and follow standard aftercare procedures post tattoo. 90% of the tattoo looks fantastic, its just one part that got infected. A touchup is the least of my worries at this point. I’m upset, because I messaged my artist privately to share my concerns with photos of the problem area a week ago. They told me I have nothing to worry about, apply neosporin, and make sure I kept it clean. Today, they checked in with me for an update. I responded with some information and a current photo, to which they replied “oh, yeah, that was definitely infected. :(“
I have diagnosed OCD, and already am sensitive regarding diseases and infections, so I’m particularly really bothered by this situation. I had a feeling it was infected, but I talked myself out of going to urgent care because I trusted my artist to give me professional advice. I wish I listened to my intuition instead. My other tattoos were done by such caring, professional, wonderful artists and I wish I waited to book one of them instead of going with a stranger.
I feel guilty even writing this, because I’m not trying to trash an artist or their business. I have no intention of writing a public review of any kind or mentioning them by name. I’m just sad that I’m in this situation.
tl;dr listen to your gut