Feeling anxious already- TW chemical

I’ve been trying to conceive since December 2025. I had a chemical pregnancy that month, then negative tests until May 2026, where I got faint positives from 11DPO. I started spotting, and then bleeding. I went to the dr but my hcg was already negative by the time I went.

The next cycle I ovulated CD15, 4 days before my period was due I started spotting, but it was too early, so when it hadn’t turned into full flow I tested and got a Faint positive starting on 11DPO with a little bit of progression over the days, but then one afternoon it turned into a full period.

After 2 in a row I contacted my GP, and she just told me that they’re common, and that I’m not doing anything wrong, but they aren’t worried, and I just have to keep trying. If I haven’t had a successful pregnancy by December, then to come back.

I’m on my next cycle, I just got my positive LH test this afternoon, and I’m spiralling already. I’m dreading taking the test, and don’t know if I’m more dreading another faint positive or a negative. I know I won’t be able to help myself to test from 9dpo onwards.

Sorry, I just needed to get this out my head 😩

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u/ghostgirl18242 — 6 days ago
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TW- chemical. When can I have sex?

I had a chemical pregnancy, this is the 2nd in a row. It started on 21/06 and it’s now 25/06. The bleeding is getting lighter now, some intermittent mild cramping but nothing too bad at all. It was heavy at the start, slowed down a bit yesterday, got heavier a tiny bit last night and is now quite light again. It’s pinky rather than full fresh red bleeding now.

I have read conflicting things online. Some things say because the loss was so early (less than 5 weeks) and my bleeding is getting lighter it’s okay to have sex now, but others have said I have to wait till the bleeding stops to have sex again. What do you think?

Sorry if this is the wrong place, I wasn’t sure what sub to post in. Please direct me to the correct sub if this isn’t allowed here- thanks!

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u/ghostgirl18242 — 13 days ago

11 DPO & 12 DPO. There’s no progression here is there?

First 2 pics from today, last 2 from yesterday. I should guard my heart shouldn’t I?

u/ghostgirl18242 — 18 days ago

SK299- human biology. Chosen topics.

Random question, but I’m looking at doing SK299, and I’m really interested in the infertility chosen topic. To anyone that’s done SK299 before, do the chosen topics get released at the start, or do they not get released until after all the main blocks.

I’m just trying to plan the way I’m doing it, and might have to finish all the material/ do the TMAs ahead of time, so want to know if that’ll be feasible or not.

Thanks

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u/ghostgirl18242 — 24 days ago

Is it safe to say I’m pregnant?

12dpo. Taken with smu after a few faint positives yesterday. These are coming up better than frer! Anxious but is this definitely real?

u/ghostgirl18242 — 2 months ago

Please please please tell me you see it? Vvvvfl 11dpo

Came up within time, 11dpo fmu. I swear I can see it. BBT dropped this morning so thought I was out but this gives me hope

u/ghostgirl18242 — 2 months ago