u/gibznthings

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[UPDATE] i resigned and my boss didn't take it well

Hi all, please refer to this post for the original story. The me from a week ago is already a different person and I envy this person and their problems

Update:

I put in my 2 weeks notice. Told my boss in person even, because I wanted to do it right so I can get out unscathed. I have an email ready to go as well for the official (paper-trail) resignation. But he didn't seem to think I meant it (guilting and manipulating me, I know) and now I don't know what to do.

My boss wasn't angry, they were being nice, but they were guilting tf out of me, and I'm trying not to give in.

It's a part time job already. They offered to cut my hours and pay me more to stay on, or to stay on to train until they find someone, etc. This place is making me miserable. They can't like... do anything to me if I complete my 2 weeks and then ghost, can they?

I reread the policy: "Since employment with this organization is based on mutual consent, both the employee and the employer have the right to terminate employment at will, with or without cause, at any time. Terminations are an inevitable part of personnel activity within any organization, and many of the reasons for termination are routine."

I feel like y'all are gonna say just leave now, because that policy is the most get-out-of-jail-free card I've ever seen, but I'm really nervous they'll harass me: phone calls, texts, etc. and that's such a nightmare. I don't need their references and I frankly want nothing to do with them post resignation.

I'm realizing that a lot of personal boundries got crossed and I'm not really sure when or how or what to do about it, and I'm embarrassed I let it get so out of hand. I'll literalllllly take any advice.

TLDR: I went and got too important at work and now am nervous about repercussions post resignation.

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