u/gigglingingreen

Hello all,

I recently inherited 6 acres with a little house on top. My husband and I decided the house's repairs would cost more than it is worth.

We would like to demolish the home and throw a modular home on the land. There is already a septic tank and a well on the property.

If anyone in indiana has built a modular home, what was the process like time wise? How much did it cost you? Is it realistic to hope to stay under 200k for the entire process (i dont want to finance more if i dont have to)

Who did you go through?

Hello! Just curious if anyone else has run into this?

I pet my bumpkin every day, the food is full, but it only says 'somewhat happy bumpkin noises'.

Is there a way to make it happier ?

Hello all! I've finished the bridge quest, and I want to meet death SOOO bad. Please, when do I get to meet bone man? (Im on day 8)

Exactly as the title says. My last period was may of 2024, until yesterday, I experienced spotting last month for literally about an hour, and my OBGYN told me not to worried about it.

Now I'm experiencing a period, with cramps and all. I'm worried that this is a sign that my birth control is or will fail. Has anyone dealt with something similar? I never bled even when I was taking the placebo pills. Google isnt much help because this is years down the line and not the first three months. I've already messaged my doctor, but its 11pm so Im not expecting a reply any time soon. I was just hoping to put my mind at ease if possible

Hello all. There are some things I absolutely did wrong in this story, but I want to know if I am the asshole over all.

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For some context; I am a twin, but me and my sister(we'll call her M, 26f) could not be more different. M was the type of girl growing up that was completely male centered. She hasn't been without a boyfriend for more than six months since freshman year of highschool. She genuinely doesn't know herself without a man by her side. I didn't date much in highschool, and I was considered the 'brainy' one and she was the 'pretty' one. When I did finally start dating seriously it was one boy( E, now M28), and we've been together for ten years, married for five. (I promise this becomes relevant later, I'm setting the scene).

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Throughout the years, M would compare every man she got to E. Saying things to me like 'he's my E!' And other similar things. At one point she got married, and was divorced less than two years later. A few months after her divorce, she started messaging me and my husband more frequently. Because she slept with our cousin's baby daddy, I was weary and told her if she needed my husband's help with anything she would need to ask me. A few days later she told my husband that he could live with her, and sent him the classic 'u up?' Booty call text at 1am. I cut contact with her after that. Needless to say, our relationship is extremely strained.

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On to present day, M announced that she was five weeks pregnant with her boyfriend's baby on mother's day. This boyfriend and her live in boyfriend's mom's house, and M hasn't been able to hold down a job for more than six months and is currently unemployed. She's been with that guy, H, since November of last year. I was the only one in the family that didn't pretend to be happy for her. I told her out right that this was a horrible decision. She was still within the time frame of being able to abort. She apparently found out around the three week mark, which makes me think this wasn't the accident she swears it was. Our family has three houses that belonged to deceased relatives. The one I inherited: a 800sqf property on 6 acres, one my brother bought, and one my brother is currently renting out. My brother offered to sell the house to M for a very discounted price. She told him no because it's too small. (2b 1bth)

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I had been talking to her every week or so, trying to tell her that I would support her and i still love her, but that the decision she's making is going to make her life very hard.

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Flash forward to this week, she puts up a post that she's rehoming her cats on facebook, and is asking for recommendations on where she can finance a camper.

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I message her and ask her whats going on. Apparently H wants to get a camper to park on Mommy's lawn, and live in there with M, 2 big dogs, and the baby when it comes. They said that living in our home town was 'ghetto' and that they like the school district there. (Sis you barely graduated, I know you don't care about school) but a 42ft camper is less ghetto somehow?

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I'm going to be honest, I ripped her a new one. She is giving up everything, and he is giving up nothing. She is miles from family and support, but theyre on H's mom's yard. She's had issues with abusive men in the past, and im seeing the classic patterns. I told her that living in a camper in our state is legally considered homelessness, and that if anyone found out and called CPS there was a decent chance they would take the baby due to poor living conditions. That she is spineless and letting this man walk all over her. She says she's doing her best, but she doesnt have a job, and is taking a camper over a full house.

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She begged me to stop being negative, but I kept going. Eventually I told her that her decisions from getting pregnant to this new one were piss poor, and that I hope she figures out that she amd the baby deserve more than what she's lying down and taking.

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She blocked me on messenger (we only talk on messenger because I blocked her phone number) but not on facebook. My mom says she believes M is scared, and cries all the time, but ultimately it's not our life to live and is continuing to support her poor decisions.

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Am i the asshole here?