u/gingahh_snapp

Hi I am child free and looking for a long term monogamous relationship. I am based in Massachusetts and I would not like to leave New England.

I spent 16 years as a scientist and now I’m in an ABSN program and I graduate this December. I love spin and running and being active in general. I have a great sense of humor and I am looking for someone who is dark and sarcastic like me. I like cooking and spend a lot of time meal prepping on the weekends. I love reading Stephen king or Ruth ware, I love animals, and I’m heavily tattooed. My dad is my best friend. I don’t eat pork or beef and I love sushi. I go to therapy once a week( I have really bad anxiety but I’m working on it) and I just turned 38 last week. I love horror movies and futurama.

I have worked very hard to make my life peaceful and quiet and I value coming home to a quiet house after a long day. I plan on getting my tubes tied after I graduate.

I am liberal and looking for the same. I’m an atheist and I have 3 college degrees. I am looking for someone respectful who has similar interests and hobbies. I have a weakness for bearded blue collar men but I am open to seeing what’s out there.

Thanks for reading.

Edited for clarity: please don’t send me dick pics 🥲

He seemed fine over the app. We met up for coffee and as soon as he sat down he opened with “so I’m a 35 year old virgin and I’ve never had a girlfriend before”. He was instantly in love with and talked about moving me into his house and I had to correct him several times and tell him that I am not moving in with anyone.
I also told him I’m not interested in having children and without even knowing me for 6 hours he offered to get a vasectomy for me. Imagine that? Offering to permanently alter your body for someone you don’t even know? I couldn’t end the date fast enough. He then sent me the following unhinged message:

I know you've got a long drive ahead of you, so please don't feel compelled to pull over and read this...

Whew, I'm glad that you're reading this while in the comfort of your own home (tonight, the next morning, or I guess never if you already blocked me)

First thing's first: I'm glad you liked my shirt. My sister in law said it was way too loud and colorful for a first date. She doesn't understand that I was going for an arcade theme, you know? Neon.(Also the shirt's awesome)

Second, I've never had this much fun on a date. Maybe I just don't connect with most women in that way, but I felt strong jitters after. It was a lot of fun.

If it doesn't work out (or when it doesn't work out) you should know that I felt this was a very positive experience for me, and I hope it was cathartic for you.

I'd love to see you again sometime. I understand your caution. You're a lot of fun, and a delight to talk to.

I also think you're beautiful. Whatever weight you want to be is fine by me. You should be comfortable feeling desired, because I do desire you... Just know I'm VERY attracted to you. I'd love to be destroyed sometime. Annihilate me.

All that being said, I think you're a wonderful and very gifted person. I hope you do well. If you feel you don't want to see me again, I understand.

Just know I'd really like to go out again and hang out. You're very outgoing and fun.

Give it some thought.

If you want to cruelly shut me down, well I know you enjoy doing that, so roast me on the way out. I value your input on my flaws and inadequacies. I'll be taking notes.

If I don't hear back from you before I get to sleep (or don't hear back from you in general) I hope you have a great night.

I deleted hinge after this date.

Ive given up on apps

I met a 35 year old virgin off of hinge