Needing advice
I’m 28(F) and my husband is 31M and we just got married 3 months ago, but have been together for 4 years before that however we only lived together full time after marriage. We were just adjusting to being married and new routines and like anyone we definitely had things to work on like with learning to live together and having more responsibilities. I never thought I’d be easily able to get pregnant as I have family history of miscarriages and uterus issues on both sides. So we never really used any preventative methods in the past 4 years and continued that after marriage. However I thought I had the flu and turned out I’m pregnant, but under 4 weeks. My husband was immediately supportive and he will go with what I want to do. It hasn’t even been 24 hours since we found out in the ER and I had a ultrasound already done this morning, but too early to see anything now just waiting for my doctor to see us end of this month as they’re out of office for the month. I’ve been feeling a lot of stress and anxiety and just shock and my husband also was shocked. Unfortunately he just came back from being away from work the day we found out and like being worried about me he didn’t sleep all night and came down with feeling the flu so he asked if we could reschedule the ultrasound they weren’t able to and I went myself which I didn’t mind as it’s the intl time I’ve had alone since finding out. The issue is I’m just in better Joan I left my last job for difference that just weren’t out and I have yet to secure a new job even tho I’m actively trying hard. So that stresses me out and also just we are so newly married I didn’t picture this so soon I’ve always been a very pre planned person so I just don’t deal well anxiety and stress wise for things like out of my plan and timelines I set. Im just looking forward to any advice my friends aren’t married or pregnant but my hands are all in the timeline right now and so are all my older cousins so that also makes it hard for me to talk to anyone right now that I know