I don't get it. What is the benchmark in therapy.
Is there an ideal type of human you have in mind when treating patients?
Do perfectly healthy mentally people exist?
What are they like? How did they get there? How do they act? What are their characteristics?
Mine didn't 2.5 years later and I want it to stop so badly it's embarrassing
People have actually asked me that, or if I'm secretely a lesbian.
I'm 26F and have only had sex once in my life, 2 years ago.
I think I'm depressed and socially anxious and feel bad about my looks and body because I have PCOS and gained weight over the years, don't like my breasts etc. Also some mild sexual trauma and fear of men.
Yet, to be honest, I don't feel the need for sex. I could live without it forever. I don't crave anything sexual,unless I'm on my period. So, it's hormonal. I don't see a naked man and feel some type of way. Honestly, I feel pressured to have sex and stuff. I'm thinking of using tinder in the future but my thinking is always you'll risking to get an STD, ruining your health etc just to be like one of the cool kids. Or I remember watching the news talking about all those sexual scandals of famous people and I've always thought to myself well for one thing I'm sure you'll never get into such a thing by your own deeds because I don't really have fetishes etc.
I fall in love and used to fall in love with guys all the time.I do self pleasure quite often. My only sexual experience wasn't bad, but physically it felt like nothing, and i might have said even a bit uncomfortable. It just felt like having to pee.
I don't know what's wrong with me. And how to approach this.
Sometimes I'm thinking im just too anxious around men and that's why I have repressed my urges, other times I question everything