I stopped SIP in Jan 2026. The loss has never been lesser. Earlier it was around 6-7 K. I started long back (2023, when IT was in better shape)
Do you recommend booking a loss and then investing this elsewhere?
I have thought to hold these, but it seems sunken cost fallacy
What are options ?
This is only for gays and bisexuals who are in satsang which doesn’t accept being gay. I am ex-Satsangi and wanted to share
when I shared my story on Reddit that I’m gay, I got a lot of DMs from people.
First of all, a huge thank you to all those people who messaged me to support me, offered sympathy, or just shared their own stories. Many messages were unexpected for me and honestly, it felt good that people talked without judging.
But some DMs seemed like maybe the person on the other end was confused about their own sexuality. Some people mentioned or felt like they might be gay or bisexual but hadn’t explored their sexuality at all.
Some people come from very religious backgrounds, where they felt a lot of guilt and shame around their sexuality. So maybe they’ve been suppressing their feelings inside.
I just want to say this:
It's absolutely okay to question your sexuality.
Gay, bisexual, straight—being anything isn’t shameful in itself. If you practice satsang, are religious, spiritual, or follow something else, questioning your sexuality or trying to understand it doesn’t make you a bad person.
If someone has doubts about their sexuality and genuinely wants to talk, you can DM me. I’m not an expert or a therapist, but I can definitely share based on my personal experience.
And one more important thing—sex itself isn’t something wrong. But that doesn’t mean you should have sex with anyone just out of confusion or desperation.
Having sex with the wrong person can create an emotionally and practically very difficult situation.
These days, cheating, fraud, catfishing, and taking advantage of people also happen. So if you’re exploring your sexuality, don’t rush into it. First, build trust with the other person, understand your boundaries, and keep your safety in mind.
It’s not necessary to live in guilt and shame by suppressing your sexuality. But exploring it doesn’t mean you have to be physical with someone right away.
Besides, there are some NGOs and organizations that help people understand their sexuality, acceptance, and provide mental/emotional support. I personally have never been to such an organization, but I know many are doing great work in this area.
If you feel things are getting difficult because of guilt, shame, or confusion, talking to a good therapist is completely fine. There’s no shame in it.
You don’t have to figure everything out alone. Take your t****ime,** understand yourself and be kind to yourself. ❤️
Your friend ♥️♥️♥️♥️
Maine satsang chodaa kyuki main gay hoon.
Maine kisi ko bola nahi but Mujhe pata hai ki kisi ko bolta toh koi accept nahi karte.
Sab log acche hai but koi accept nahi karta gay log ko. Samaaj nahi, satsang nahi. Support ka matlab hota hai ki samaj badhana aur paise Dena satsang mein aur bade bade chezein bolna kaise “Mera bohot accha hua hai Satsang join kar k”. Ye kabhi kabhi Amway ki Tara lagta hai.
Mujhe swami sant se Milne ka opportunity kam mila kyu ki mein itna Ameer nahi hooon, nahi itna bol-bacchan. Introvert hoon.
But Mujhe koi regret nahi hai. Accha hua jo bhi hua 🤷♂️
Main jab tha toh batwara hua, do hisson mein aur log ek dusre k bare mein galat galat bolne lage
Agar koi sawal hai, toh pooch sakte ho. Ye mat poocha Kaunsa group tha, hint hai ki recently ye group ke 2 hisse hue hain