u/goth_bunny_identity_

I hope this is the right place to ask this (if not plz lmk a sub that might be more helpful/appropriate!) but, to briefly summarize where this issue even came from; I was coerced into sleeping with someone who took advantage of me and constantly did things I didn’t fully agree to. It’s a whole story in itself but I’m mainly here cause it completely affected my response to being touched in certain ways by anyone but myself. (and even that took me some time to get used to again)

I want to be able to feel comfortable with that again and even possibly explore some things I’ve been wanting to try in terms of kink and whatnot.. is there a good place to start? A way to go about asking someone? I’m currently not in a relationship of any kind, but I don’t want this to possibly affect any future one I might be in. Ik therapy is a big part and I am currently working on it in therapy, but even that can only do so much.

So I turn to knowledgable strangers online! Plz share any insights or wisdom you may have :3

(Copied and pasted from BDSMAdvice as mods said it fit better here!)

I hope this is the right place to ask this (if not plz lmk a sub that might be more helpful/appropriate!) but, to briefly summarize where this issue even came from; I was coerced into sleeping with someone who took advantage of me and constantly did things I didn’t fully agree to. It’s a whole story in itself but I’m mainly here cause it completely affected my response to being touched in certain ways by anyone but myself. (and even that took me some time to get used to again)

I want to be able to feel comfortable with that again and even possibly explore some things I’ve been wanting to try in terms of kink and whatnot.. is there a good place to start? A way to go about asking someone? I’m currently not in a relationship of any kind, but I don’t want this to possibly affect any future one I might be in. Ik therapy is a big part and I am currently working on it in therapy, but even that can only do so much.

So I turn to knowledgable strangers online! Plz share any insights or wisdom you may have :3