AITAH for dating maybe too soon
AITAH for dating right after my ex wife and I broke up? Lots to read sorry
My soon to be ex wife and I broke up almost a year ago. Things were going downhill for a long time. Not trying to talk shit and trash her because it takes 2 to tango. As soon as we broke up I figured that getting out more would be good for me. It started with some friends but a few friends and family suggested I start going on dates again to help with my self confidence. So I figured why not. I only went on dates for about a month and half before I found a girl I really liked. It happened organically. We had a great first date and an even better second date and we just kept hanging out and going out places and I genuinely like her a lot and can really see a future with her but I thought that with my ex wife too. She’s knows my situation and has been nothing but understanding and supportive which was super shocking to me because I figured many people wouldn’t want to date someone until they were done with the whole divorce process. It’s been 10 months now and we still see each other regularly and spend a lot of time together. Sometimes I feel bad though because I feel like it should’ve taken me longer than a month and half to get over my broken marriage. I’m still struggling with a few things personally but I feel like I’m truly over her and content with never seeing her again. I know some people take years just to go out to social scenes but for some reason just meeting people again that I think like me for myself really helped me. In 3 months I’ll be able to file officially and I’m hopeful it will be fast and easy for both of us because I think we both just want to cut the cord and go on with our lives with nothing nasty or mean happening. I’m a lot happier than I’ve been in a long time thanks a lot to this girl. Did I move on too fast? Should I have given myself more time to process things? Am I just an asshole?