u/hangerald

So my partner tested positive for HIV.

Lowkey, I was the one to blame kasi ako nag suggest na mag open relationship kami since LDR kami.

I have been trying to support him from far away. Nagkita lang kami last month sa Thailand.

Now, my partner is avoidant. He has been pushing me now and then kapag he’s having a bad time. The worst thing is he will do it and make me overthink na may ginawa akong mali, then he will now communicate with me. Bigla nalang syang di sasagot, ako naman mangungulit kasi nag aalala ako sa kanya.

Okay naman ako to support eh. Di na nabibigyan pansin yung problems ko kasi nakafocus ako sa kanya so pag may concern ako, solo nalang.

Of course concern ako sa kanya. Pero I can see myself resenting him everytime na may nangyayari sa kanya making him sad tapos bigla nya ako ighoghost. Instead of him allowing me to stay or informing me that he is not in the shape, he will just keep me at bay.

I dont wanna leave him kasi i know difficult part to ng buhay nya and we have plans. But man, naiiyak nalang ako minsan. Di ko alam gagawin ko.

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Hi,

My partner (ldr) was diagnosed in March. He lives in a country where medicines are not easily accessible because of the price.. I think thats the norm in developing countries.

There are government programs that can help him but the paper works would take months based sa calculations, baka sa July pa sya maka access with the financial support.
For the meantime, binigigyan sya ng support na gamot to prevent opportunistic infections.
The doctor told him na he can start the medicines but he has to oay full price which just too expensive- like 3/4 of his salary.

He has no symptoms naman, altho may suspected fistula sya na right now managed dahil sa antibiotics nya.

Now my question is do you think it is okay to wait til July? Or immediate talaga ang medicines? Whats ur opinion?

I got nominated for 190 last year (November)- secondary teacher then invited in December.

I finished and paid the application in January with 1 police clearance missing (provided with a cover letter)

I did my medical in February 14th then submitted my missing police clearance in March 7th

All throughout my application, the status remained “Received” and never received any RFI.

My friend who recently got invited in Feb and finalised his application few days ago got his grant letter recently. And I have been hearing a lot of grants for secondary teacher which the waiting time is just for about 1 month to 2 months.

Any possible reasons why mine is stucked and not moving up?

Hi everyone

Anyone PLHIV in Japan here? Just have a few questions.

Quick story: my partner tested positive two months ago. He is navigating his life and getting undetectable alone (as we are ldr).

Cost, apparently, is too much and paperworks are hard to navigate, dagdag pa yung the stress of taking care of himself without anyone to talk to.

He lives in Tokyo (idk if that helps).

Thank you!