Feeling threatened by estranged parent
So I’ve been looking online and can’t find anything so this feels like a total shot in the dark.
A bit of background- I went no contact with my mum and haven’t spoken to her for over 5 years for various reasons but I had to protect myself. Moving 800 miles away wasn’t enough.
Since then I’ve received letters from her which I’ve ignored. I have now moved places and she should not know where I live. However, letters still showed up and recently she actually showed up at my door. Luckily my partner buzzed her in and she pushed a letter through the letterbox and ran away and we didn’t see each other but I made some calls and confirmed it was her.
Anyway, I recently got married and on the first day of the honeymoon I get a call from an old family friend saying that my mum had told him to tell me that she’s got a new job and will be an hour away from where I live every other week. Bear in mind that’s an 800 mile journey each way.
It’s really scared me because she knows where I live and now she can show up whenever she likes and I’m getting very paranoid about it. Every time the door bell goes I panic and I’m getting a bit scared to go out. I don’t want to live like this but the only thing I can think of doing is going to the police but that seems so extreme.
I’d really appreciate any advice anyone has.