u/hellyr13

as the header says, I’ve been having excessive milky white discharge, watery consistency for the past week. I get it multiple times a day, gushes out, and when I’m not wearing panties it runs down my legs. It has no smell for the most part. It started after my period ended. Also, no itchiness or irritation.

For context, I used vaginal clindamycin to treat my BV around 3 weeks back. When I completed the treatment I did have some general irritation and frequent urination for a couple of days but it went away. Now, it’s just the discharge and it’s bothering me a lot because of the quantity of it. Would appreciate any advice

Posting for a friend looking for advice on her rship:

Me (23F) and my partner (25M) have been together for about 8 months now (first as friends now together). We both have been really into each other from the start and knew what we wanted so we got pretty serious pretty fast. I had always admired who he was as a person so this was an easy decision. Now I’m experiencing some things that I was not expecting.
We are different ppl at our cores which is completely fine ofc but it has started to cause problems. He’s very high energy and needs constant contact to keep him feeling secure, I on the other hand am not someone who is able to keep up with that. I like my space and I feel very secure in our relationship. I don’t want us to be one of those couples who become codependent and unable to function outside of each other. I do recognise that I have certain problems with communication and conflict avoidance, but I don’t think its healthy to make a conflict out of everything either.
An example would be that spending an entire day together at uni and then outside would be followed by an intense fight from his end over something very small like me not picking up his call cos i was busy. If I say I will call at a certain time but get busy and forget to update him, he gets really upset and we end up fighting. I wish this was a one-time thing but the frequency kept increasing. I have tried apologising and trying to change things but it just keeps getting worse, he thinks its a huge problem and that I don’t follow through with my commitments (which is an unfair comparison imo). I confronted him about this and he did acknowledge it and promised to be better (things did change for some time) but it never completely went away. The worst part was him not admitting that he was wrong in those instances, just saying that he would try not to make me upset. I’m afraid hes suppressing who he really is to keep me around.
He’s a good kind person who does a lot for me but things like these make me fear for the future. I sense that he’s a tad bit controlling (not overtly) but subtle signs of it like deciding our future or even a minor difference in opinion gets a strong dismissal from him. He seems very set in his ways and opinions and it often feels like those things are not even up for a debate.
He eventually does come around or at least tries to communicate but his instant dismissal breaks my heart. I dont want to be in a rship where my opinion and preference is not valued and reduced to a whim. If i am out with my friends and i don’t text him during that time, we always end up fighting after for one reason or another. At one point I got really concerned if this was his way of making me not go out at all, but he never explicitly said that and he would always reassure me that wasnt the case after the fights.
I always saw myself with a calm, nice guy who was as easygoing as I am myself. Despite my love for him, I think it won’t be easy to spend a life with him if we are going to be going at it over things as small as a late reply or a missed call.
I know he loves me and we don’t want to lose each other but is it something that can be changed over time? Will I regret choosing this person in the long run?