u/herWhisperedThoughts

There is no fear quite like imagining a world without your parents. If you're reading this, go hug your parents while you still can.

My parents are currently staying in our hometown, so it's just my brother and me at home. Today, the house suddenly felt different. Quieter. Emptier. As if something that quietly held this place together was missing. I looked around and saw my parents' prayer mats, their clothes, and the little things they use every day. They were all there, exactly where they had left them. But they weren't.

A strange heaviness settled in my heart. Then, out of nowhere, I thought of my grandparents. Once upon a time, my parents were children too. They lived with their parents, laughed with them, loved them, argued with them, and probably never imagined a day would come when they would have to continue life without them. Then death came, as it comes for every soul. Not because love ended, but because Allah separated them into two different worlds. One remained in this dunya, and the other returned to the Hereafter.

And then a terrifying thought crossed my mind. If Allah grants me a longer life than my parents, one day that will be my reality too. One day, this house may still have their belongings, but not their presence. One day, I'll remember their voices instead of hearing them. One day, I'll wish I could call them, knowing no phone in this world could ever reach them. That single thought shattered my heart.

Every little moment started replaying in my mind. The times I answered them impatiently. The moments I failed to appreciate them. The endless sacrifices they made so silently, expecting almost nothing in return. The countless ways they loved us without ever asking to be loved back.May we never realize their worth only after they're gone.

We think we have time, until one day we realize time has been quietly passing all along.I hope I never take another ordinary day with my parents for granted.

At 2 a.m., I felt an overwhelming urge to call them just to say, "I love you. Thank you for everything. You mean more to me than words could ever explain." But I didn't. I didn't want to wake them up or make them worry that something terrible had happened.

So instead, I made dua. May Allah grant all of our parents the healthiest and longest lives filled with barakah. May He forgive their shortcomings, reward every sacrifice they made for us, and grant them the highest place in Jannah. And when our time in this dunya comes to an end, may Allah reunite us with our parents in Jannatul Firdaus, where there will be no fear of separation ever again. Ameen.

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u/herWhisperedThoughts — 8 hours ago

Healing is carrying the story without carrying the weight

Life is truly a journey.

A journey through the known and the unknown. Through dreams, disappointments, losses, victories, heartbreaks, and healing. A journey where sometimes we carry unbearable pain, and sometimes we look back at that same pain and wonder how we ever survived it.

At some point in life, almost all of us desperately wanted something. Something we were convinced we could not live without. A person, a dream, an opportunity, a version of life we had imagined for ourselves. We cried over it, prayed for it, fought for it. We thought if we lost it, life would end right there.

But it didn't.You are still here.

There were nights when you could not sleep because your chest felt too heavy. Days when you tried so hard to forget, to move on, to heal, to achieve something, yet nothing seemed to work. No advice helped. No distraction lasted. The wound remained exactly where it was.

And then something strange happened.Time passed. Not because you wanted it to, but because it always does.Slowly, without asking for permission, life kept moving. The pain that once felt unbearable became bearable. The thing that occupied every corner of your mind stopped visiting as often. The intensity faded. The grief softened. The storm eventually became a memory.

And years later, when you think about it, all that's left are a few flashbacks, a lesson, and sometimes even a smile. Not because what happened was insignificant, but because you finally realized how much stronger you were than you thought.

Life has a funny way of teaching us that survival itself is an achievement.

Sometimes success is building an empire. Sometimes success is simply getting out of bed. Sometimes success is earning millions. And sometimes success is just living one more day when your heart wants to give up.

Life changes people. Sometimes in a few days. Sometimes in a few years. Sometimes over an entire lifetime.So to anyone going through a difficult season, especially those in their teenage years or early adulthood who feel lost, broken, left behind, or convinced that things will never get better:

Hold on.The truth about your story has not fully unfolded yet.You have no idea what life is preparing you for, what doors are waiting to open, what prayers are slowly making their way toward you.Until then, let it hurt if it must.Cry if you need to.Rest if you're tired.But hold on.

Hold on until the pain becomes lighter. Hold on until the lesson reveals itself. Hold on until what once broke you no longer has the power to do so.

Because one day, you will look back at this version of yourself and realize that surviving was the bravest thing you ever did.Cheers to everyone who kept going when life gave them every reason not to.

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u/herWhisperedThoughts — 3 days ago
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MSc in CSE at IUT

Is anyone here currently doing an MSc in CSE at IUT, or planning to apply for it?

I need some information regarding the admission test, question pattern, and a few additional details about the program. I’d really appreciate your help and time. Thanks in advance!

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u/herWhisperedThoughts — 1 month ago