Lesbian bed death
Been with my partner for 7 years, we used to love having sex almost everyday. We did work together and it would build up the tension in work so maybe that added to the thrill. After about 2 years tho it stopped and all of a sudden my advances felt like “pressure” even tho nothing had changed, I got used to the frequent sex that is all. After a while I got tired of rejection and I stopped trying, we would go months without it and she wouldn’t bring it up or care about it even once. When we do have sex it’s amazing she always says how great I am and no one ever does it better I always say “remember this feeling, you could be getting it everyday!”. We are both overweight so I think laziness does add to it and a change in her libido over the years. It’s got to the point now where when she does try to initiate sex every couple of months I don’t even want it, I feel resentment and anger that “why does she get it when she wants it, and I never do?” But I end up giving in anyways because I never know when the next time will be. It’s like a cycle and she has to wait so long to be horny again. Can this be changed or is it well and truly dead? I’ve kinda accepted that maybe this is just what sex is like after 7 years and I’ve accepted that she brings more to my life than just sex. Anyone experienced this?