Hello ! I'm 20F , currently in my last year of btech CSE based in vadodara, gujarat
And I don't find in my IT field and wanted to switch to banking
No matter whether sbi clerk or po
So need advice regarding this . Should I stick to IT or switch to banking
Also around 25-26 I'll be doing arrange marriage
So will be posting possible?
Tell me how many times postings occurs
If I request to other location if I Marry there
Is astrology even real ? Mainly i don't know what is right what is wrong . Till now ok ok before some months i don't even believe astrology or anything just like religion. I'm not saying I'm atheist but I'm also not a big believer of bhagwan dekh lega . I always believed sab agar bhagwan ne likh rakhaa hai to why all people are not happy . Because God doesn't do wrong to their child .
Ok let's come up to astrology
Suddenly of nowhere my insta feed was full of astrology.then i did research on some (just because I'm going through breakup)
And boom , i found aries traits (yes I'm aries) some good ones some bad ones . Like I'm fire fierce bold full of confidence and also a human who did actions without understanding, the impatient one , who is impulsive, who says I don't need anyone yet secretly craving for that one bond
And in other side i found about taurus (obviously his sign) opposite of me , who is full of love trust treating everyone like family the strong one the one who is always showing up no matter what who is stubborn, taking care no one asked , takes responsibility like parent
I literally related that , like I'm behaving like aries and yeah he is exactly like that
I don't know it's true or I was hallucinated
I don't knowww
Okay talk about another
Like
Birth datesss
Mine is 8 , karma , shani , hard work all that
And he is 6 , wealthy , lakshmi all like that
I even relate to that aghh
Then I checked some website like
Astrosage astrotalk etf etc
I put my birthdate birth locations and all that. , astrosage gave my kundli chart , predictions
I got stressed out
I feel like I'm bojh on earth
It's still not like ki I'm big believer of all this
And yett I find this very relatable and want to believe it
And on another side / another pov
It's all on out actions
How we react how we handle situations how we handle people like this
Plus also
He is the one with whom I did all the experience from first kiss to sex to late night talking hostel bunks shared my family topics how I deal how I feel
Literally everything
I feel like I'm his child 💎
But when I talk about marriage (that day I was on period so it's more like overthinking and mood swings)
I suddenly of nowhere talked about we should not stay in relationship if you're not intend to marry me
And everything changed
We fight i agree but everytime we solves . Sometimes me , and mostly him .
But now when it's the topic of marriage
He did step backwards
I never thought about it
It's been 14 months , and I'm still not overcoming it
He is older than me
Like I'm 2006 and he is 2001
Our relationship was mostly online , he is from another city
But it never felt like long distance relationship I don't know why how anything
I don't know what happens next
And I feel like in future I'll definitely judged by this
Idk its overthinking or what
Help
Hello , I'll be graduating in April 2027 , placements are starts , doing btech in cs from Gujarat,india
And still confused about which career should be better devops or development
I need to go deeper in devops learn fundamentals tools etc but many companies I've seen is asking experience of 2-5 years
And in development in which field should I go , node js or react developer or software engineer
Switching career in devops after development is easy or going to be tough
Is there any market for tech ?