u/hh_2435

My fiancee (28M) and I (28F) have been engaged for the past few months, and our wedding date is \~8 months away. We have always had trouble adhering to boundaries before we were engaged and dating during a year prior. I am so deeply attracted to my fiancee and he also is to me, so it's extremely difficult for us to keep our hands to ourselves. We've never had any type of sex together before but sometimes our makeout sessions become too heated and we end up on top of each other. Even when I'm alone I have such a difficult time thinking about us being married and masturbating to him. We both know this isn't right, but it's a constant battle of falling and standing. Would appreciate any advice from mature brothers and sisters in Christ. :)

My fiancee (28M) and I (28F) have been engaged for the past few months, and our wedding date is ~8 months away. We have always had trouble adhering to boundaries before we were engaged and dating during a year prior. I am so deeply attracted to my fiancee and he also is to me, so it's extremely difficult for us to keep our hands to ourselves. We've never had any type of sex together before but sometimes our makeout sessions become too heated and we end up on top of each other. Even when I'm alone I have such a difficult time thinking about us being married and masturbating to him. We both know this isn't right, but it's a constant battle of falling and standing. Would appreciate any advice from mature brothers and sisters in Christ. :)