AITAH if i wanted to go to an OF event without my gf knowing?
Ive always struggled with a porn addiction. It’s something that I have never been able to shake since I was a teenager. I’m now 29 and my girlfriend is 28, we’ve been together for the past 3 years. She’s known about my addiction since the first year we got together and expressed she had no problem with it. The past few weeks, she’s become more irritable and annoying to be around, especially when she catches me watching porn. She’s been arguing that my addiction is starting to get out of hand, apparently i’ve been watching it/talking about it more often. I don’t see the problem here especially since i’ve been open and honest about my struggles from the start.
A while back, an OF creator by the name of “bonnie blue” was having an event hosted near the area i live in. I was planning to go with a few of my mates (not to participate, just to watch as i’ve been a long time subscriber to her) and somehow my girlfriend found out about this. I explained to her that I wasn’t going to do anything and I was only going to be there for moral support of my friends which she replied to crying and locking herself in our bedroom. I got annoyed and started an argument with her. It seems that i’m starting to build a resentment towards her after this incident and I don’t know what to do going forward. Am I the asshole? I truly don’t believe i’ve done anything wrong as I already told her i wasn’t going to do anything and that all i wanted to do was see a person i’ve been interested in for a while. What should I do?