u/hiyesilikejuice

▲ 13 r/phallo

Lipo / contouring / body masculinization

Has anyone here had fat removed from their lower body, ie thighs, butt, hips through surgery? after 6 years on testosterone, a hysterectomy, and anorexia I’ve had enough. I’ve gained all the muscle I’m willing to gain in my legs to make them look more masculine, it’s not enough. I can lose weight until I’m nearly underweight and over exercising but it’s not sustainabl. My testosterone is normal, estrogen higher end of normal. i think I should start thinking of getting this done surgically.

My phalloplasty consult is in a week. I’ll ask my surgeon if she also does lipo. Is it recommended to get it done before or after starting Phallo? I’m not sure what impact this would have on recovery or how soon I’d be able to start Phallo if I get lipo done first. I’m planning on rff.

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u/hiyesilikejuice — 7 days ago

Caregiving / Support after surgery

Hi, I am going to get top and bottom surgery soon, but I have no support. I do not have a form of transportation, so I'm looking for some kind of medical transportation service to bring me home after surgery. Also looking for caregiving resources for after surgery. Thanks.

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u/hiyesilikejuice — 10 days ago
▲ 59 r/FTMMen

“I support you but I disagree with what you’re doing”

what in the world does this even mean? this isn’t an agree to disagree kind of thing. My family has always been against me getting surgery. Unfortunately l live with them at the moment. and I need someone to take care of me afterwards so I can’t just refuse to ever talk about it. I know what Im doing is right. what they say won’t ever sway my decision in any direction. They will never understand and I wish they could but I try to explain and I end up having to defend myself instead. Why can’t people just acknowledge I’m getting surgery without bringing in their own opinions about it? I feel like an alien in my own house right now.

And the crying too???. So far both my dad and sister have separately called me, and both ended up crying about this. Wtf? the last straw was my mom finally realizing how serious I am about this last night and she cried too??? what even is this reaction? I’m more confused than Anything and honestly disturbed. I feel so disgusting.

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u/hiyesilikejuice — 10 days ago