Pre trial ARD

Pre trial ARD

Hi everyone, I am currently in the pre trial phase for ARD in Dauphin County PA with my court date being November. My ARD conditions do not say to abstain from alcohol, but I realized during my monthly check in, the website asks if I have had any alcohol. Will I get in trouble for having a single drink? I had my first and only drink out since date of when I got pulled over for DUI. I did not drive, and have been extremely responsible since getting pulled over. So much so that the only conditions I have left to complete are paying my fines. Just curious on if I should ask my lawyer and then my PO, because I know my lawyer is there to help me. Thanks. I’m extremely stressed about it now, but I was not recommended for any further alc treatment etc. my DUI in October was an awful mistake which I have learned from, I don’t want one drink to deter me from all of the progress I’ve made.

u/hjlynx — 6 hours ago
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Pre trial ARD

Hi everyone, I am currently in the pre trial phase for ARD in Dauphin County PA with my court date being November. My ARD conditions do not say to abstain from alcohol, but I realized during my monthly check in, the website asks if I have had any alcohol. Will I get in trouble for having a single drink? I had my first and only drink out since October (when I got pulled over for DUI). I did not drive, and have been extremely responsible since getting pulled over. So much so that the only conditions I have left to complete are paying my fines. Just curious on if I should ask my lawyer and then my PO, because I know my lawyer is there to help me. Thanks. I’m extremely stressed about it now, but I was not recommended for any further alc treatment etc. my DUI in October was an awful mistake which I have learned from, I don’t want one drink to deter me from all of the progress I’ve made.

I’ve reviewed all my paperwork before I drank, and then reviewed it after. I know I made the conscious choice to drink, but I also shuffled through all of my paperwork first. I do not like how I felt after the drink, all of the trauma from the night I was pulled over came flooding back, so it won’t happen again.

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u/hjlynx — 10 hours ago

Anxious for my future as a perfectionist/planner

Hi everyone,

Please be kind. I came here to freak out (probably like everyone else). I am entering my second year of my MSW program, and am applying for a paid internship at my local VA. I have heard that after completion of internship, the VA 99% of the time offers positions to the interns.

I have 13k in undergraduate loans, and 37k in graduate loans. Again, I have another year left of school. I would qualify for PSLF and possibly even more benefits through the VA if I am offered a position. If not, I will be working nonprofit and still qualify for PSLF.

I have extreme levels of anxiety as someone who was homeschooled and was barely taught the basics of finances. I live alone, have no parental support. I work full time and am in school full time. I randomly became very overwhelmed seeing the interest accrue, knowing I still have 9 classes to pay tuition for. Is there light at the end of the tunnel? I barely make enough to keep myself above water now... I am just so scared with all of the changes at the education department. MSW graduates, did you freak out the same as me and where are you at now? I am so very passionate about getting my MSW and feel like it will be worth it in the long run. I'm 23 years old, and a girl who knows she wants to make a difference for others. I really hope there is light at the end of this all. My only other debt is a car loan but that will be paid off in 3 years. Thank you ❤️

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u/hjlynx — 2 months ago

Extreme anxiety about loans

Hi everyone,

Please be kind. I came here to freak out (probably like everyone else). I am entering my second year of my MSW program, and am applying for a paid internship at my local VA. I have heard that after completion of internship, the VA 99% of the time offers positions to the interns.

I have 13k in undergraduate loans, and 37k in graduate loans. Again, I have another year left of school. I would qualify for PSLF and possibly even more benefits through the VA if I am offered a position. If not, I will be working nonprofit and still qualify for PSLF.

I have extreme levels of anxiety as someone who was homeschooled and was barely taught the basics of finances. I live alone, have no parental support. I work full time and am in school full time. I randomly became very overwhelmed seeing the interest accrue, knowing I still have 9 classes to pay tuition for. Is there light at the end of the tunnel? I barely make enough to keep myself above water now... I am just so scared with all of the changes at the education department. MSW graduates, did you freak out the same as me and where are you at now? I am so very passionate about getting my MSW and feel like it will be worth it in the long run. I'm 23 years old, and a girl who knows she wants to make a difference for others. I really hope there is light at the end of this all. My only other debt is a car loan but that will be paid off in 3 years. Thank you ❤️

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u/hjlynx — 2 months ago

Extreme anxiety about loans

Hi everyone,

Please be kind. I came here to freak out (probably like everyone else). I am entering my second year of my MSW program, and am applying for a paid internship at my local VA. I have heard that after completion of internship, the VA 99% of the time offers positions to the interns.

I have 13k in undergraduate loans, and 37k in graduate loans. Again, I have another year left of school. I would qualify for PSLF and possibly even more benefits through the VA if I am offered a position. If not, I will be working nonprofit and still qualify for PSLF.

I have extreme levels of anxiety as someone who was homeschooled and was barely taught the basics of finances. I live alone, have no parental support. I work full time and am in school full time. I randomly became very overwhelmed seeing the interest accrue, knowing I still have 9 classes to pay tuition for. Is there light at the end of the tunnel? I barely make enough to keep myself above water now... I am just so scared with all of the changes at the education department. MSW graduates, did you freak out the same as me and where are you at now? I am so very passionate about getting my MSW and feel like it will be worth it in the long run. I'm 23 years old, and a girl who knows she wants to make a difference for others. I really hope there is light at the end of this all. My only other debt is a car loan but that will be paid off in 3 years. Thank you ❤️

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u/hjlynx — 2 months ago

Hi everyone, I recently just got hyper fixated on debloating and trying to drink more water. For starters I just started meal prepping and maybe that’s a hyper fixation too. It’s really just been ground beef and sweet potatoes and rice. I’ve always had a disordered relationship with food either eating too much or not enough. But I’ve never had a good water intake. I guess I’m just trying to see here if anyone else has tried to up their intake with ADHD and how did they do? I do not have time for the gym other than the weekends because I’m in full-time school and work and I’m already exhausted as is, but I would be open to taking walks and listening to podcast throughout the week. I guess I’m just looking for some advice and to feel hurt because I wish I was healthier and I envy gym girls.

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u/hjlynx — 2 months ago