u/hoe4jeon

Since I'm bored and can't sleep i wanna hear y'all's thoughts on this. For those who haven't seen the video on their fyp, there's basically this influencer on TikTok who posted a makeup(?) video while talking about her preferences as a bisexual woman. One of the things she said is how she prefers dating men more than dating women then she stated her reasons for it which got a lot of people mad, saying it's okay to be straight. Basically, they're telling her that she's not actually a bisexual.

So, right now, I'm confused because isn't it normal for bisexuals to have a preference for one gender? I'm not defending the girl as i think some of the things she said are questionable but at the same time, most ppl are coming at her for preferring to date men but no one cares when a woman prefers women. Like personally, I can never see myself with a man and I can't form a deep connection with them but i am physically attracted to them still so i consider myself a bisexual. But if i go on the internet and say these things, no one would tell me that's it's okay to be a lesbian. Lol. In fact, if i asked if there's a chance that i might be a lesbian, they'd tell me that it's okay to be a bisexual. So like double standards lang?

Like gusto ko na talagang ibuhos pagiging lover girl ko pero kasiii why can't i find someone that matches my effort and the kind of love i can offer? Puro mga nonchalant at avoidant nakikilala ko and then they'd tell you they're interested in you but won't make the effort to get to know you or actually spend time with you like ano ba? 😭😭 Bakit ang daming ganito? Fgkjshj at least try to get to know me?? Make me feel special maybe? Put in some effort? Tapos yung iba naman, magtatanong nga pero puro naman nsfw like gusto mo ba ko or gusto mo lang akong ikama?? It lowkey makes me feel like I'm just not worth the effort, na maybe they just don't like me enough to actually put in the work. 💔💔 Wow ang drama hshshshs basta miss ko na magpa-baby HAHAHAHAHA match my yearn!!