I have all my data and it's legit but do the examiners actually contact the professionals? My profs email is fluffykid and I feel so embarrassed putting it in. It's for an Irish national final.
Would any parents be able to give me advice on what kinda messy play their kids love?
So I come from a large family and am the oldest. My siblings are spaced out so there's always been a baby or a toddler. I have always had to watch them, or mind them, even though not home alone, just alone with them. And cleaning, my parents are wholly against breaks. If you are sitting down/laying down or cleaning where they can't see you eg. Cleaning your bedroom, you are screamed at that you are lazy. Mainly me though not so much my siblings. There have been times I as a small child have not been allowed to sleep until 3 in the morning because the cleaning wasn't finished yet. Even with begging to sleep due to being tired. I am in secondary school and during the time leading up to exams (yes every year yes state exams) my mom makes it difficult for me to study or even complete homework as she keeps me down stairs until 9 or 10 at night. I have severe pain in my legs and varicose veins and think this may be due to this treatment for years. My siblings destroy my stuff anytime I leave my room and I get blamed for it. My mom has also destroyed my room twice while I was at work, even ripping down my curtains. She calls me a spoilt brat for being able to sit down at my boyfriends house and not having to constantly clean and mind children. She belittles me about my achievements which I won't name for anonymity. My dad works away and did so until recently and had started a new job working from home although I still don't really interact with him. He is married to my mom but he wanted a boy, not a girl so he just doesn't do anything with me. Any time I use painkillers to treat being in pain I'm made fun of and called a hydrocondriact.
If I spend too long out of the house, no one will do the dishes or clean and it will be let pile up for when I get home then I have to do it.
I was kept awake for two days to do laundry. 48hours straight, I then fainted at work and concerns were raised.
My mom calls me autistic constantly and tells me that I am, even though I have no symptoms of autism.
I was bullied severely at school to the point of having little memory of most of my primary education and first few years of secondary. And my moms response was to tell me I deserved it.
I recently started working in childcare (preschool) and my mom threatened to call the guards on me and accuse me of hurting children so I would lose my job and gaurda vetting.
I get accused of stealing other people in the family's stuff constantly and if anything of mine goes missing it gets destroyed I am told they don't want to hear it and told I'm dramatic and annoying.
I do well at school and try hard and I'm called stupid and book smart and that street smarts are more important and I'll never go anywhere in life.
I get called fat constantly even though I'm not and ugly. I cannot attend events on my own, my mom insisting I bring my sibling and that if the siblings have an event they want to go to it's no issue for them to go on their own or with friends.
My friends think this is abuse but I'm not sure.