u/horrescoblue

I'm trying to keep it vague because you can probably understand the drama of me posting on reddit would cause if the person found out.
They very very clearly have bpd, it's not shameful, it comes from a traumatizing childhood. They have extremely obvious traits and have been diagnosed as such by a psychologist before and they would MASSIVELY profit from accepting the diagnosis and getting proper mental support.

Now this person keeps grasping every single possible diagnosis that is not bpd to not face the truth. Right now they're putting all their effort into getting a very clearly not correct ADHD/autism diagnosis (but its so difficult and so expensive so it will take a looooooooooong time in which of course you cannot work on yourself in any way).
I've really tried selling the bpd diagnosis by emphasizing how this is very hard to deal with and how special and rough that is which apparently was tempting but i guess just lying to yourself and not getting better is just MORE tempting?

This person is also sabotaging every single possible relationship with any human being they could have, im one of the longest lasting ones, and i really don't know if i wanna keep doing that forever.... I'm sorry for them because they truly are not an evil person and yearn for human connection, i would love for them to find that. But i also needed to vent, im so tired :(