Femme frustrations
Being a stone femme, or pillow princess, and using the dating apps is actually terrible. I’m not femme4femme, there are virtually 0 butch-identifying people on them, and I get so many likes from weird cis-men with lesbian kinks that sneak through the apps screening cracks.
It really bothers me. I think I’m also feeling bitter because last weekend, 3 dykes were surprised I was a lesbian. I am the poster child of a femme lesbian, tattoos, eyebrow and nose piercings, rings, loud. I don’t know what is happening… the internet’s, specifically TikTok’s, lesbian community has really set a standard.
I’m gay! I’m a stone femme!!! I don’t have to explain that to anyone.
u/hypotheticalsandstuf — 18 hours ago