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Would it be ok to message a girl I went on a date with a year ago? More info inside!

I (M32) matched with a very beautiful girl (F30) last year on Hidge. We had great texting chemistry. However, she politely said that she didn't want to continue after the first date. I thought the date went really well, so I was surprised when she texted this, but I respected her wishes. I asked her why she didn't want to continue, but she didn't reply, so I left it at that.

After a year of matching and dating, I've yet to find someone that I really connected with. Tbh, I haven't been on the app much and I was going on way more dates last year vs this year. I was scrolling through my texts one day and I got to her name, and I thought about maybe texting her again, but idk if I should.

To me, the date went well. We were laughing, talking about our future goals and plans, and got into some deep conversations. I even drove her home after dinner. I doubt a girl would get into a man's car if she wasn't vibing with him. Because of this, I think that she maybe could have used me for a free dinner, but idk, it's just a thought.

I guess the question is, after a year of not speaking, would it be weird if I messaged her again or should I just just move on. I'm not desperate or anything, but the thought of messaging her did cross my mind haha.

Edit:

I thought my post was automatically deleted lol.

Hello everyone!

My fault for not explaining my intentions more clearly. I wanted to be casual. I didn't want to accuse her of using me for dinner, or ask her for a 2nd chance. I was thinking more like asking how it's going and if she had any luck in the dating game until now. I'm not planning on texting her with any expectations. If she doesnt respond or tells me she isn't interested, that is 100% perfectly fine.

I feel like some people just automatically think the worst of you, but I guess this is Reddit haha.

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