u/ickyspooky

I'm 21F and he is 23 and living abroad. He is on vacation and works at 9 am - 5pm. He works hard and doesn’t take financial support from family. I know too much is going on in his life. But I just have bad anxiety. I feel too anxious when he texts me and disappears for the whole evening after coming home. I feel like it only takes 2 seconds to text good night and love you and he's not putting me in his priority list. Though reassure me enough. He doesn’t do this all the time but most of the time. When he doesn’t respond back i get serious panic attack. I told him how i feel, he said he was busy and tired that's why he couldn’t reply. Still i can't stop overthinking that he might be losing interest in me and trying to get out of this relationship by ghosting me. Even though he spends on me, send me cash and stuff but i need his company more than these material stuff. I'd like to mention i have anxious attachment style and he is kinda nonchalant.

Am i asking too much? Is this the way employed men act in a relationship?? How do i manage stress and anxiety??