Beauty of male ego
I’ve dated two guys in my life and one experience completely changed the way I look at relationships.
I have issues with my foot, and it’s something I’ve always been a little insecure about. When the pain got worse, I was emotional and honestly scared. In my past relationship, instead of feeling cared for, I felt judged. Small comments, mocking, and bringing up family things how he will be showing me to his family they will comment on this i need to treat myself blaming my parents not taking me to hospital blah blah
But the guy I’m dating now he is indian and he reacted in a way I’ll never forget
He took me to the hospital himself, stayed with me through the checkup, listened carefully to everything the doctors said, and kept asking if I was okay. But what really stayed with me was something small and simple.
While we were at the hospital, my leg was hurting badly. He went to the pharmacy himself, bought lotion, sat beside me, and gently massaged my leg to help with the pain. Nobody asked him to do it. He just did it naturally, like taking care of me
Idk how this both people are so different because of country differences or k ho idk but it made me realize ki nobody should settle for less and bound themselves with toxic situations
Idk why situations is so different here in my life may be nepal society more conservative and vulnerable ho ki more patriarchy ho ki k ho manche ko personality ho but kasto genuinely khusi lagxa empathy bhako manche first time nai dekhe sayed life ma 🫶🏻