WIBTAH for telling my friend’s boyfriend that she’s dating a guy at the same time as him
Hello! I 23 F Emily have a friend 25 F Trisha who is dating her current ldr bf 25 M Oscar who have been together for 2 years. The beginning of their relationship was drama since Trisha was with her ex at the time and then got together with Oscar but they were talking while she was with her ex. Now the ending is drama since she’s now talking with another guy as well AT THE SAME TIME!!!
I was friends with Oscar before her but I did get closer with her later. They broke up recently but got back together during a special event since he wanted to try again and she felt bad. This is where it gets interesting, Oscar wants to try and fix things which she has agreed to. Little does he know she has been talking to another guy and has recently agreed to be his gf on the day she and Oscar broke up. AND she plans on breaking up with Oscar within the next month or two which he doesn’t know.
For context, he did know about the other guy and was worried about him but trusted that she had it handled and wouldn’t take things further than just being friends. Also, her parents hate Oscar but love the new guy. I care about both people and both come to me to vent about each other. They are both just two different people and both are great and have been trying to work on their relationship. I just don’t agree with them being together since it’s been getting so toxic on both sides. WIBTAH if I told him about the other guy or is it not my place?