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I received a call from Wesley Smith & Associates, a man was saying if I don’t pay from my services in 2020 within 24 hours, smile direct would be knocking on my door sueing me (they didn’t even fit and I gave up)

I live in Florida, and it’s been over 5 years. I don’t even think they could do this, ChatGPT said it doesn’t seem real but I’d love your opinions….?

I’ve never been sued so this is scary for me. When I search my name on records, I have no cases open for me at the moment.

I can’t take this anymore, I’m making myself sick. my husband and I literally have sex every single day and I’m still not enough.

married 5 years, together 10 and have 3 kids. We’re both 33.

I become hyper fixated on all of this. I cannot stop thinking about the videos that he’s watched or what he’s searching.

Every time he picks up his phone, I’m wondering what he’s looking at. Every time I go to sleep, I’m wondering what he’s looking at. every time I’m at work, i’m wondering what he’s doing. Every time he’s at the gym I’m wondering who he’s looking at next. Every time we’re intimate I’m wondering what he’s thinking about or what girl he’s lusting over in his head.

I would feel so much better about this if I wasn’t having sex with him at least I would have some understanding. I truly have no idea what is going on. I can’t keep living like this playing detective every single day. It’s getting in the way of my daily life, my job… Everything.

& it’s not even just online… he has wandering eyes… in front of me… then gaslights me. I just feel numb.

He tells me he wants to change, then does the same shit just hides it better or rotates platforms.

obviously he only cares to change cause I caught him. Before I caught him again it’s all “you’re crazy I’d never do that bc you’re perfect “

I’m honestly asking… why stay married to someone who doesn’t even want me. obviously I’m not enough, I see it in his actions. & I take care of myself, I work out every day… I’ve been a personal trainer for the last 10 years and I have my own business. Like I literally thought our marriage was perfect but this whole time he’s been getting off to other women and I can’t figure out why.

Is there a point in staying with someone if they’re addicted to looking at other women? To me it just defeats the whole point of marriage. I NEVER even thought to look at another man? That’s so… weird while being married. I thought he felt the same but I was clearly wrong 😑

Aren’t you supposed to save that intimacy for your partner? It would be a different story if we watched it together… But that’s just not the case here.

I just needed advice….. will it ever stop or should I just leave….? it doesn’t sit well with me that my partner needs therapy so that he doesn’t lust over other women? In my head this is something that I can’t get over… How is everyone else dealing with this?!

Thank you!!