u/ign_saucy

Hey! So my girlfriend and I have been dating long distance for about 3 months now. We knew each other months longer as only friends who met through and played tons of Dead By Daylight together. We became really fast friends and even faster best friends. She's gone through a lot in her life and does have heavy trauma which she goes to therapy for. Despite this I know she loves me so so very much. She's very career driven, attending community college and was recently accepted into a major university in her home state. I'm so proud of her!! We were close friends for months before actually getting together but I feel like I've loved her my whole life. I was the first to confess my feelings but she didn't confess that she felt the same until months later (my feelings only grew as time went on even after the initial rejection). MIND YOU this is my FIRST relationship... I didn't date in highschool or at all because I was too focused on my studies, parents that are genuinely impossible to deal with and because I hate where I live so I was never really attracted to the women around me. (This feeling has only grown now that I have a girlfriend and I'm only 20 btw :p) We've had some problems during our time (all of it my fault tho...) but we've always worked it out. So the reason you're reading this needs some background information. My girlfriend is a very career driven woman. She even hinted before when we were friends that if she were to have a boyfriend, he would have to have a career, be pursuing a career, know what career he actually wants and/or be in some sort of higher education. I've always had 2 careers in mind and I'm on the waiting list for one and may be interviewing for the other if my test scores are good! Fast forward to a few weeks ago I applied to community college in my city because no jobs are hiring and I genuinely want to start moving in my life so I can eventually move out of my home state and to where she lives. She helped me a bit on the application and was even really happy that I did. Fast forward again to yesterday. I went down to the community college campus to turn in my transcript and take placement tests. After I finished the test, I received my results basically telling me that I'm smart enough to not need any remedial classes and I did so well on the Reading portion that I should take special exams in order to earn extra credits on 34 different subjects. She was so so so super proud of me and so happy to see how I did. A few hours later I received an email saying that I WAS ACCEPTED INTO THE COMMUNITY COLLEGE!! MIND YOU, this is on THE SAME DAY I JUST WENT TO THE CAMPUS TO DELIVER A TRANSCRIPT AND TAKE PLACEMENT TESTS. So she was EVEN MORE happy and proud of me :D. I didn't mention that we play Minecraft together too and we have 2 worlds now, with one being a survival world where all we must do is beat the ender dragon and the other being a creative world we have a house in. When we play Minecraft, we do small things for each other to make the other feel loved. For example, building things to make the other smile like making something the other's favorite color (mine is purple and her's is red). Since I know her favorite color is red, I know her lucky number is 13 and I know she likes roses, I plucked 13 roses from the environment and gave them to her and she loved it. "So what did she do for you," you ask? She asked me what were the colors of the community college I'll be attending this fall which are black and yellow. She pretended to be busy with homework for awhile then asked me to play Minecraft with her. I join the creative world and she completely surprises me with a Minecraft college acceptance party! She had black and yellow banners, she edited a book saying she loves me so much and is so very proud of me, she has signs everywhere congratulating me, she put black and yellow fireworks, and she just went all out on decorating the place to congratulate me on getting into the community college. I'm still so so damn happy about getting in and I'm so so in love with her. She's truly the most important person to me and I really can't imagine a life without her. I love her so darn much I can't breathe and I love it. She is my moon and if she finds this (I love you my perfect pretty girl :D).