





age 18, height 5’6
had a few comments from family and friends telling me i should gain weight, coming here to ask if i’m wrong to think i look perfectly healthy?
i have 3 meals a day consistently and i eat well
I’ve been struggling with this on my mind since i hit puberty and i’m 18 now, so I would love some input on this and even some advice on how to deal with this insecurity. I feel like i’ve been brainwashed by porn to have developed this much hatred towards myself, as the standard is to be all tucked in and neat.
I can’t even look at it in a mirror without feeling unwell and crying.
I’m in a relationship now and i’ve never been able to fully relax or even let him see my vagina and this is holding me back from enjoying sex.
Is it worth getting surgery (labiaplasty) or should I just try harder to accept myself?