My boyfriend doesn’t really seem into doing stuff for me
Hi guys. I really enjoy giving to my boyfriend when we get freaky. Like i enjoy giving him blowjobs, boob jobs etc. I have a much higher libidio and am generally kinkier than him which isn’t an issue for me.
However it sometimes bothers me because he seems unwilling to do anything for me. For example, sometimes we will finish having sex and even if I have finished - which is not an uncommon occurrence - i want to go again and obviously men can usually only last twice (counting a BJ and a round of sex). So sometimes I just want him to do something with my boobs whilst i do the work , etc.
However everytime i ask him to, he kinda just sighs in a way? Idk not like a “ugh omg” but just in a “do i really have to” kind of way.
I’m also into praise, degrading, etc and he doesn’t really do any of that, other than pull my hair. I get it is out of his comfort zone but i want to experience my kinks as it really gets me off.
I’m unsure how to communicate either issue to him without making him feel like he doesn’t fulfil me because he really does - it’s just these two things that are constantly on my mind. Does anyone have any advice ?