Who is also curious, or doesn't know whether or not now is the right timing to contact Crush? Mars in Taurus + Venus in Cancer edition
So boys and girls. I thought it would be a great time to officially talk on this topic. Thank you to all the mods from this community. I love it. I thought this topic was super connected with the "timing philosophy" , which made me really wanted to share this.
It is Mars in Taurus + Venus in Cancer. With that combo, it creates a magnetic energy that values quiet consistency and genuine emotional warmth over flashy, superficial gestures. And like what I mentioned from the title, now the question is left: should I reach out or should I not.
reach out first if:
It is follow-up on a real conversation, a thought that connects to something you've already shared, an honest and specific reach that has something in it beyond wanting to see if they'll respond. under Venus in Cancer, the message that feels personal and considered lands significantly better than the one that's designed to be clever. The emotional quality behind it is readable.
Mars in Taurus backs this approach: direct, low-pressure, no performance. Don't attach it to a required response. let it land and give it room to breathe.
let them come to you if:
you've been doing most or all of the initiating. This energy actually rewards stillness if the balance has been off. Mars in Taurus has enough patience to hold a position and wait and under Venus in Cancer, someone who is genuinely interested will feel the pull of that stillness. If you've been chasing and it hasn't been returned, this week is a reasonable one to hold your ground and see what moves toward you without prompting.
Also: let them come to you if the only reason you want to reach is anxiety. the need to know, the need to confirm, the need to fill silence that feels too loud. Venus in Cancer can read that energy from a distance, and it tends to close rather than open in response to it.
the thing to avoid either way:
the message sent from a contracted place. Both of these transits can feel anxious energy through the screen. what's your situation?
And by the way guys, if they stop contacting you and stop reaching out and ghost you, LET THEM GOOOOOOOOOO. PERIOD.