u/imjusthereforthetea2

So I recently got divorced from my hs sweetheart. Knew all about my cf early on all the shit. Realized we got married cause I was dying and then when I didn’t things just kinda fell apart as we got older.. tragic I know but nonetheless. I’m starting to date again. How do you bring it up. With the first coughing fit? Before the first date? I sit around 75% and am pretty active but I do have a consistent cough. Also just like sex. Again only 1 partner. Idk this is weird. Also for those that have been divorced how do you tell your care team. I have an appointment next week and I’m embarrassed as shit to tell them. I know it doesn’t matter but like ugh why.

Struggling to find next steps. My husband says that he doesn’t respect me, finds me cringey, and thinks I’m a nag. We both have ADHD and depression. We have a 2 year old and I and a stay at home student starting law school next year. He doesn’t want to pay for couple therapy and we have no more free sessions through his work. I could figure out how to make leaving work I think but I am worried I wouldn’t get custody of my kid because I have a disability that lands me in the hospital for several weeks at a time. I thought we had great communication until our kid was born and I realized that he never actually tells me anything real. I love him and I am so tired of being unhappy. I am in my own therapy every week and so was he though he hasn’t gone in over a month. Do you think he will gain a respect for me? How can I navigate a marriage where he doesn’t respect me?