i’m a 24F and i’ve heard a LOT about the sugar lifestyle. i’m intrigued but the possibility of having boundaries violated or being trafficked is definitely scary.
i’ve seen some other posts on here, which is why i’m asking here - can someone enlighten me?
i lost my cat last week. my manager at work has been trying to get me fired, and i’m trying to resign before he can manage it but i need the money. just went no contact with a toxic ex that i broke up with in 2024. lost a couple of close friends, because they were going through stuff and so was i. i’m usually pretty athletic and i workout a lot but i injured my hand so that’s out of question.
life has been a lot. i started antidepressants a couple weeks ago, and i’m hoping that helps. but i could also use some wholesome friendships. i’m turning 25 this month. idk how to describe my interests but i’m currently revisiting my hunger games obsession lol. i (used to) draw, paint, and play the guitar but those are hard to do with my injury. i sing for fun. i used to play football but it’s been a while now. i also really like aimlessly skating in loops on my board because i never worked up the nerve to learn any actual tricks. i love cats, but im mourning my little boy right now. i also like horror movies, and i used to be into video games but its been a minute because of the depression. same used to be true for reading but i’ve made a comeback with that!
please reach out if you’re looking for genuine conversations about things you’re interested in, kind-hearted check ins, or to learn about each other’s unique experiences and life in general :)
hi, i’m looking for my replacement for the master bedroom in a 3bhk in SJR luxuria
the house is fully furnished with a massive fridge, microwave, washing machine, etc. all the rooms/living room have air conditioners
the society has a clubhouse with your standard gym, pool, football/basketball areas, badminton, squash etc
the owner is really chill and doesn’t get involved at all, just asks that rent is paid timely.
gender is no bar but the other 2 flatmates are male. one of them is only present in the flat ~7 days in the month as he works out of mumbai and only comes to the bangalore office infrequently. the other is a wfh software dev
the room would be available early/mid july
rent: 21.6k
deposit: 80k
maid: 3k/3
Hi, my 1 year old orange cat Theo has had the worst June. After being diagnosed with mycoplasma and jaundice, he's been put on drips, hospitalized, stuffed with antibiotics and steroids, and had completely lost his appetite. His most recent doctor suspected FIP and started him on GS.
I'm treating him at home for now, with daily vet visits. He is responding to the GS but his bilirubin has skyrocketed to 11. He has also undergone a blood transfusion and a myriad of other treatments at Cessna Domlur. I love this little guy more than anything in the world, and I'd do anything to make him better.
That being said, I'm not the healthiest myself right now. I incidentally started sertraline the same day he was admitted at Bangalore Pet hospital (18th June) and haven't been getting much sleep due to the fear of losing my little guy. I've been on leave for a week, to take care of him (he needs constant feeding because of his liver issues), but force-feeding him has taken a massive toll on my mental health (how do I watch my baby cry?). If any cat parents/volunteers in the area can help me out, I would be incredibly grateful. I'm 24 myself and though I have had cats in childhood, I've never looked after one on my own and medical emergencies like these are completely new territory. Help/support can look like:
I'm also thinking of starting a fundraiser. I've spent around 58,000 in the past 2 weeks to keep him alive, and the FIP and jaundice treatments could possibly make that number reach 1.2L. If anyone has advice with raising funds, please let me know.
TW : eating disorders mentioned
i’m a 24F, and i’m 5’7. the weight i usually hover around is ~65kgs. i’ve been going through a wild season lately, so that 65kg was at one point a lot of muscle and barely any fat and then slightly more fat, barely any muscle (i couldn’t work out for a couple of months)
when in the latter stage, i didn’t really know what to do. i have pretty bad body dysmorphia which i usually counter with staying muscular. i also have pcos, and the extreme stress messes with my hormones and now i’ve gained a couple more kgs.
i miss being lean, but i don’t want to retrigger an eating disorder. bulking to put on muscle would mess with my hormones.
the added weight has also made it harder to do things i love like run and play football. can other 5’7 girlies tell me what their weight ranges usually look like? at my lowest (ED phase, i was 58kgs but ive also had reasonably sustained phases of sitting at 62)