u/j0rdannn_

Okay for those that are unaware, I have been watching this show on Netflix called “My Life With The Walter Boys”. To sum it real fast, it’s about this girl [Jackie] whose whole family died and she went to live with another family. She had this love triangle between two brothers. She ends up picking Cole. Cole and her end up finally dating. And Alex [the one she played twice] is a bronc rider. He’s basically being hazed and is struggling to fit in with the other much older riders. Jackie’s friend Grace, has a birthday coming up. So she asked Cole to help her throw a party for her. They successfully throw a party and Alex invites these riders to the party [bc Blake -the daughter of a rodeo employer] pressures him to get along with other rides as connections are important. These men go to the party with Alex and are eyeing the girls there. Cole has to step in to tell them that they can’t talk to children.

A person made a discussion around how toxic those men are and another person tried to blame it on Alex. I make a comment saying it’s absolutely inappropriate for grown men to hit on kids as well as try pressuring their child star rider to drink on a school night, especially if they expect him to ride well. This person then says the grown men look like they aren’t over 21 and it’s okay because “at least they aren’t 40”. And if you watch, they are ABSOLUTELY NOT 21. I make another comment, and the mods message me saying they removed my comment bc it wasn’t civil. I then ask how, and they don’t really elaborate on what exactly wasn’t civil. I then say they can remove my comment but it would be wise to remove that person’s comment too as they defended literal pedophilia. The mods then completely make up a fake scenario that never happened, of me talking about Blake and Alex. You can see here I never brought them up. My issues was with that commenter defending the cowboys hitting on teens at the girl’s BIRTHDAY PARTY? Then after lying about what I said, the mods muted me before I could say anything.

I probably will delete this…

But for context, my father has serious mental health issues and was verbally/emotionally abusive to me, my mother, and my brother throughout our entire lives. When my mom left him, he met another woman -who would later birth my sister. I honestly couldn’t take him anymore and stopped visiting him when I was 13. At 22 years old, I finally reunited with my now 9 year old sister. I knew she had a relatively young cat but also learned she was now staying with my grandmother because my father was having mental health problems again. My father told my brother he needed a ride to the airport because he’d be receiving treatment in the DR, and I had a bad gut feeling. After my brother dropped him off, I asked him who was watching “Pudding” (the cat)? My brother said my father was leaving the baby there ALL ALONE for a week. I felt absolutely terrible about this and told my mother and brother that, that’s not acceptable conditions for a cat. Cats are social and a week is too long with ZERO intervention.

I go down to the house that caused me so much trauma, and see Pudding is zipped away in a room in the back. As soon as Pudding saw me, they started purring. This is the first time I ever even met Pudding. That poor thing had to of been so lonely. The room had a cat tree, an electric litter box, water fountain, and big jar of dry cat food [but the cat food dispenser wasn’t electric]. -Meaning the food can’t be portioned and it’s movement or how it falls out the dispenser is dependent solely on how much Pudding decides to eat.

So how would you even be able to monitor how much the baby is eating???? Exactly you can’t. And the litter box can only be cleaned by a person pressing the clean button. Cats can get stressed if their litter box is dirty! He has cameras in his house so my grandmother called me saying he saw me. And that he also said he “only was leaving for a week, not a month” -therefore he thought that a week wasn’t a long time for a cat and that he’d hire a sitter if it was for a month. I genuinely don’t think he understands cats or will allow himself to see things from Pudding’s POV. Imagine your owner leaves and locks you in a singular room all alone. Who wouldn’t go insane being trapped in a room? Not to mention being all alone at night too in the dark. And you have no company, no other pets, and no one checking in. You eat the same dry food everyday. You have no way to entertain yourself and will be faced with boredom! Additionally, what if there was a power out or the machines stopped working???? The non electric litter box in the room was dirty. With no supervision, who will clean the litter, who will give her clean water, etc???? Cats aren’t exactly like humans but it boggles my mind how people think cats will like treatment that they themselves probably wouldn’t like! Don’t humans get tired of eating the same thing? Don’t we get lonely or scared at night? Don’t we worry when our family doesn’t come home??? I am just so worried about this cat and if he’ll try pulling this again. I’m considering taking her home with me until he returns because she clearly needs love. The whole time I was at his house unannounced, she was being affectionate, cuddling, following me, and being loving. :(

Moderators Gaslighting Me And Then Muting Me As Deflection

Am I being dramatic for suggesting that my sister’s cat is being neglected by my father?