Someone posted in a New Zealand mums group about their child's first (seemingly developmentally normal) nightmare about snakes. Most of the replies were completely normal, but one mum thinks CERN in Switzerland might be to blame 🤔🤔
My 30/F husband 30/M and I have been having this recurring disagreement and it is starting to really impact me. We've been together for 13 years, married for 7.
This morning: my husband was being quite short with me, and whenever I tried to start a conversation his answer was pretty much "no," or "no, thats stupid." Convserations were pretty nothing, like should we get a rug for our kid 2/M to play on but the interaction left me feeling pretty poo so when we had a child-free moment, I told him I was not feeling very liked this morning and could he please be nicer. His first answer was "I've been having a hard time because you are on your phone too much," then after more discussing "I'll try but it's hard." This response has really sent me. I just don't think it should be hard to be nicer to someone you love.
This is a pretty ongoing issue, where I feel like he might love me, but he generally just doesn't really like me. He's pretty often mean or dismissive when I say things. We've talked about it lots. Been to therapy etc but I just don't know what else to do.
Has anyone had experiences like this? How can I make it clear to him that this is important?