Life is so stuck , i really need a girl to girl advises 😭!!
I’m 16 and currently in 11th grade. When the new academic year started, I was really excited and determined to change everything for the better. I thought, “This is my year. I’ll become the best version of myself and finally glow up.” But honestly, things didn’t turn out that way. Instead, a lot of difficult things happened.
I used to like a guy from my school, and he seemed interested in me too. But when the new session started, he got a girlfriend. Then, to make things worse, my gynecologist told me that I have PCOS, and I’ve also gained quite a lot of weight.
Academically, things have been really difficult too. I got some of the worst grades I’ve ever had in my first UT exams, especially considering that I’m studying PCM with Computer Science. These were probably the lowest marks I’ve received in my entire academic life, and some girls in my class even laughed at me because of them.
On top of all this, some friends I used to consider close started spreading rumors about me and saying that I’m “two-faced.” I also ended a four-year friendship with my best friend because I felt that the friendship had become unhealthy. She would often make everything about herself and play the victim in almost every situation.
Overall, a lot has happened this year, and I honestly feel overwhelmed by everything.
I want to get my life back on track—academically, physically, and mentally. What should I do from here? How can I improve my studies, take better care of my health, and get my mental health back to a better place?
I’d really appreciate any genuine advice.plz reply